A Good Woman... (Spinoff)

A good woman. . . I feel you on the good women are scarce frame of mind. I know a lot of females and to find one that's a close to 100% real is very difficult. Before I get into what I think a good woman is I'm going to point out characteristics I've noticed in a lot of women lately which I don't consider good traits. First of all women can be very deceptive. They can say a lot based on emotions which turn out to be false in the future. They can also be selfish and have double standards. . . I'm sure everyone can think of examples of this. You know what, I'm sitting here talkin bout grimey a$$ females and choosing my words so the grimey a$$ females on here won't get mad. So neways, it goes beyond how yall treat the fellas. . . Y is it that two females can't be friends for longer than a year or two??? Cuz yall be doing grimey a$$ $hit. Y is it that yall wait untill a man and a woman get in a beautiful happy relationship b4 you even take a second look at that man??? Cuz yall be doing grimey a$$ $hit. Aight aight. . . this post is about good females so I'ma stop lookin at the negative. A good female in my book has to have these traits. Honesty. . . It's not that all females always lie, it's just that when they do, they tell lies that cause the most pain. She got to be spiritual, with my experiance all the good females (all two or three of them) that I ever met were spiritual people. . . Not saying you have to be in order to be considered a good woman, I'm just going off my own experiance. . . She has to have confidence. . . I get sick of woman claiming they trust they man but "it's those triflin a$$ hoez I don't trust." If you truly trusted your man you wouldn't need to trust them. . . And in order to be trusting you got to be secure in who you are. . . Let's her man be himself. . . We should not feel like we got to water stuff down when we get around our women. . . And to be honest, most guys prolly do. . . It's like "I can't say that I'm around my girl." No yall just need to accept us for who we are and stop tryin to change us. . . and that's anotha thing. . .I can't stand controlling a$$ B. . . . . . . . . . .eautiful black females. . . My ideal woman doesn't try to control her man because the reason she's even with him is bc he is him. . . I think that's it fa now. . . . hmm. . . oh yea, stop being so fu(kin jealous. . .

Okay... thanks for clearing it up. I'm glad that you used the word relative... because EVERYTHING is relative. And everyone has baggage... males and females... it just depends on whether they want to tell you about it or not... but I could be wrong. I'm glad you found some girls who you think are perfect, but I hope you realize that good women are everywhere... it's just that the baggage you speak of creates a barrier, so to speak, that you cannot get through. That is why it seems like you are talking to a representative when you are speaking with some girls. They are not going to open themselves up to you immediately... it takes time. Most girls have been hurt before by men (which is whole different topic), so you just have to understand that. If a girl is that truthful with you, it could mean a positive or a negative thing: Positive being you are special, and she trusts you... or Negative being while you THINK she is being different and open, you are only speaking to another "shell" that is covering her true self... a representative that is not as easy to detect... but a representative all the same. Be cautious with all girls, not just those you think you can trust because you are compatible with them. Those are the ones who hurt you the most.. Okay, okay.... I'm done. :arrow:

I tried to post on here earlier but I guess I'm sposed to clean it up or sumtin. . . I'm still new at this stuff. . . But neway, in order to describe what a good woman is I will first say what a good woman isn't. A good woman isn't deceptive. A lot of women say things based on emotions that turn out to be false in the future (or just flat out lie). I don't think women lie more than men or something like that, but the stuff yall lie about cause the most pain. A good woman isn't controlling. . . Y some of yall act like you know whats best for us and try to play mom. . . No, we don't be tryin to date our mom. And good women don't do. . .for lack of a better choice of words. . .grimey a$$ $hit. Why is it that it's not until a man gets in a nice wonderful relationship that you notice him. Just last month I was he was the same person but now that you know he got a girl, you want to be all up on him. . . And it's not just your attitude towards men. . . Y can two females stay friends for more than a year? cuz yall be doin grimey a$$ $hit. . . but this isn't a post to focus on the trif females so I will get on the good ones I known in my life (all two or three of them). A good female is honest. . . I got mad respect for a woman who tells the truth, even when the consequences are undesirable. A good female is confident. . . I can't stand it when a woman is insecure. . . sayin stuff like "I trust you, it's those triflin a$$ hoez I don't trust." No, if you really trust yo man you don't got to trust them. The "good females" I've come accross have all been spiritual. . . I'm not saying in order to be considered a good female you have to be, that's just what I experianced. And a woman got to respect herself. . . it's a lot I can put under here but I'm gone let this topic rest. Besides I can talk about females all day.

Oh, so now my post comes back. . . and I did all that work rethinking what I wrote.