is he cheatin?

9 replies · 3596 views · Started by Caramelslim2005 · Sep 2004

Caramelslim2005

aight ladies i have a best friend whos man, doesnt answer her calls, dont return ha calls, she hasnt talked to him in like a 2 weeks, and when she does get in touch w/ him its always call me back or i'm busy,and she swears that he's probablly "just busy" now maybe i can get some outside opinions so she can deal w/ reality. What yall think?

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JsGyrl1110 · Sep 2004

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Caramelslim2005 wrote:
aight ladies i have a best friend whos man, doesnt answer her calls, dont return ha calls, she hasnt talked to him in like a 2 weeks, and when she does get in touch w/ him its always call me back or i'm busy,and she swears that he's probablly "just busy" now maybe i can get some outside opinions so she can deal w/ reality. What yall think?

Wow, what a situation....i try to be optimistic about situations and i think that maybe he is dealing with something and he just cant confide in her but then i also think maybe it could be cheating because is trying to avoid her for some reasons and it could be he has a another female on the side and he doesnt want either to know about each other...its complicated and i think your friend needs to just confront him and let it all in the open....i hope for the best with her and keep being a good friend like u r ...there arent many out there-1LUV

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NeoSoulBrotha from Rosedale, MD · Sep 2004

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If he hasn't talked for 2 weeks, then he is sending a sign. The sign is that he is not interested for whatever reason. Maybe there is someone else, but that's not what's important. Don't get me wrong... a lot of dudes stay busy and don't have time to chat whenever wherever. But to not make basic contact for that long, the dude knows exactly what he's doing, and he probably hopes that she takes the hint. Holla!

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· Sep 2004

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^^^ i agree with him. i have done that to guys before (they call and i not answer; say i'm busy; tell them i'll call them right back then dont; etc.) meanwhile MOST of them will eventually get the hint. So yeah, what ur girl needs to do is just take it as a loss and to stop calling him altogther, because 9 times out of 10, when she calls him and his phone rings he probably shows it to his boys and they all probably have a good laugh about it. So yeah. . .don't gas his head up anymore.

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· Sep 2004

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Gotta cosign Neosoulbrotha on this one. Ole boy is avoiding your friend in hopes that they can "break up" without him telling her that he's no longer interested. It's a punk move if you ask me, so if I were her, I wouldn't even entertain that foolishness.

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· Sep 2004

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NeoSoulBrotha wrote:
If he hasn't talked for 2 weeks, then he is sending a sign. The sign is that he is not interested for whatever reason. Maybe there is someone else, but that's not what's important. Don't get me wrong... a lot of dudes stay busy and don't have time to chat whenever wherever. But to not make basic contact for that long, the dude knows exactly what he's doing, and he probably hopes that she takes the hint. Holla!

I agree