Taking for Granted * & the LONG morale of the story is..

64 replies · 27844 views · Started by jadekiss · Nov 2004

jadekiss

I'm trying to figure this ****out, becuase me and my ex-boyfreind are going through some SHYT. Letme pop game to ya. Now lets say you have found that one girl that takes care of you, anything you needed she got you, she's always there when you need her, you love her, family loves her too...you know... Okay, so you're not ready for a relationship with her because, you don't know if you can competly turn away any temptation that comes you way. You wanna be free to see other people. Understandable. But because of the relationship you two have, you know she is always going to be there...so that when you are ready...you can pick up where you left off... :roll: ha...assumptions... Anyways... how do you make a person not take you for granted. How do you do this in a way that they know you will always be there for them...but not always be HERE for them..? Do I make any sense? Yeah...he's probably right with the I'll always be here...but I don't want him to KNOW that. I want to become challange again... Am I making good sense?

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· Nov 2004

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Girl u make a whole lota sense. dont let him know u will always be there even though u will be. also u cant do all the little things you use to do when you guys were together he lsot those priveliges when he chose to play the field. let him know you will be there for all the major things, but that things have changed and you cant act like a girlfriend any more. i hope that makes sense

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SuperFly · Nov 2004

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Do you still talk to him on a constant basis?

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jadekiss · Nov 2004

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Aggie Highlander wrote:
Do you still talk to him on a constant basis?

Yeah. He considers us "best friends" or something perverted like that. So we talk all the time...

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atlprincess from College Park, GA · Nov 2004

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There is definitely a way to have him not take you for granted. Like Sapphire said, don't let him know that you will always be there. The fact that he does know that if anything else with these other females fails, then he can always be safe and come back to you. There is not a problem with that....I mean you want him to come back to you right? But just don't let it become a habit...do you know what I mean? And shoot, two can play that game.

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In Rod We Trust · Nov 2004

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atlprincess wrote:
There is definitely a way to have him not take you for granted. Like Sapphire said, don't let him know that you will always be there. The fact that he does know that if anything else with these other females fails, then he can always be safe and come back to you. There is not a problem with that....I mean you want him to come back to you right? But just don't let it become a habit...do you know what I mean? And shoot, two can play that game.

yeah, i gotta concur.................... spoiled **** men.....................