What'z ya Kryptonite?

spin-off from tha "I Have a Problem" thread... briefly describe the type of person physically and personality-wise who is your Kryptonite... you might've already ran across this type of person many times....or maybe you have yet to... but just knowing YOURSELF...you know that WHEN and/or IF you do...that's just it - it's a wrap... now these aren't supposed to be restrictions...like when you go looking, this is what you look for to a "T"...it's just...pretty much, aside from the fact that no one is perfect, IF you COULD have your perfect person...perfect for you...that's ya Kryptonite... and even if you've met people who possess a good majority of the qualities....& those r the ones u've gone the most ga-ga over...which leads u 2 know what u your complete Kryptonite is... okay, for me...my Kryptonite is... physically: taller than me (6'0 & up); nice full frame, be it tha athletic football frame or tha cushiony one u can drown in when u hug 'em ; light brite to dark (sucker 4 all complexionz); dreamy dark eyes that pull u in & make u feel like u're the only being in the entire UNIVERSE; ummmmmmmmmmm....ooo a defined jawline; long (course OR str8ened) hair either all out or in cornrows; annnnnnnnd....everything else is optional... mentally, emotionally, etc.: book and street intelligence; really funny w/ a great sense of humor; sweet; selfless; confident; respectful and self-respecting; unique; open-minded; crazy and silly, yet serious when necessary; assertive, with a hint of aggressiveness; conversational; determined and goal-oriented; mysterious to a certain extent; honest; trustworthy; and just cool overall... that's my Kryptonite ...let me find him - it'll be a wrap :arrow:

Andre is the PROTOTYPE

^^^Good Luck Finding him!!!! Physically: :arrow: (I totally agree with Meya on this one) Has to be taller than me (6'0 and up) :arrow: A nice build...cause im not too much into skinny guys...being as im skinny! AND TWO STICKS WILL DO NOTHING BUT CREATE A FIRE!!!!! :arrow: Nice smile :arrow: Ooooo and im a sucker for nice legs and big lips!! Personalty wise: :arrow: Sense of humor...cause im goofy and if he dont have some kind of dorkiness inside of him, i'd probably drive him nuts! :arrow: Someone who is willing to put up wit my stuff :arrow: Open-minded...and someone who speaks their mind :arrow: Somewhat Blunt :arrow: Knows what they want in life...or at least has a clue. :arrow: Someone that DOESNT let me just RUN ALL OVER HIM!!!! Thats all i can think of for right now!

Ok Physically: :arrow: I like a tall guy. 5'10 or taller :arrow: Good teeth. Nice smile. :arrow: Nice stomach. :arrow: Nice calves. :arrow: Darn, just a nice body....I find myself to be attracted to the football player physique. Now Mentally: :arrow: Must have God in his life. :arrow: He must be intelligent. :arrow: Must make me laugh...since I love to laugh. :arrow: It's important for him to know whose and who he is. :arrow: Must be a good conversationalist. **There's more, but I don't feel like continuing right now** These things seem so simple...but why is it so hard for me to find this guy?

The Physical :arrow: About 5'0" --> 5'5" :arrow: Stumpy build/ Ya'll know what im talkin about. The short, stumpy girl with a nice body. :arrow: Cute face. Glasses are a plus :arrow: Smooth caramel skin tone :arrow: Cute legs & feet :arrow: Almost always smells good :arrow: Nice pair of soft **** :arrow: She doesn't have to be real bootylicious. I'm not greedy. :arrow: Pretty pair of eyes. I like having something to stare into when I'm talking to her. The Mental :arrow: Loving & caring :arrow: Mother-like traits :arrow: Good with kids. :arrow: Conversational :arrow: Silly at the right times (and I do mean silly. I can get str8 foolish when I want to...and she at least has to be able to have a sense of humor) :!: Lady in public...freak by bedroom :arrow: Open minded..in the bedroom, and outside of the bedroom :arrow: Willing to try new things :!: Able to chill sometimes. Too many of todays black women are busy-bodies that can't stand still or sit down for 10 minutes, like if there is anything going on, she HAS to be involved. Thats a really big turnoff to me. I run from busy-bodies. :arrow: Able to cook :arrow: Understanding :arrow: Has some sort of work ethic. I have one, and success doesn't come from schooling alone. What good is a college degree when you dont wanna get up to go to work in the morning? Remember: The busiest are always the happiest. :!: Has morals when it comes to the relationship. Talking to your "friend" while we're supposed to be having private time is a fukking NO NO! :arrow: Common sense. Education isn't required at all. Common sense is. I know a lot of formally educated people who dont know how to balance a checkbook or pump gas. smh. :roll: If you haven't noticed, I pay more attention to the mental than the physical...but it still counts. I came pretty damned close to my "kryptonite" (and I mean REAL close...very recently). She knows who I'm talking about.