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16 replies · 5899 views · Started by lilbrownqt05 · Jan 2005

Ok... This is gonna be kinda long... Last year my guy friend and I hung out together. WE were very good friend but he was very mannish. He's one of those people who'd be like "you look good but you'd look better in my bed" and stuff like that. Anyway, we had a few conversations. He asked me to be his first and so I was. So we were together for a while and then we had a falling out so we stopped messing around. So I practiced abstinence for about 7 months when I moved away but then we got back together in November and you know.... So the other day, I had a realization that I shouldn't be someone's cut buddy. I have too much going for myself. I have nice hair, a car, a nice body and high self-esteem. So I told him and he said ok. So we had a parting event and it was GREAT! Oh My Goodness HBCU ladies, I thought I saw the heavens open up but anyway, I think I have feelings for this man because you can't do what lovers do and not expect love feeling to grow. I think I'm so into him. And we're both going to the same college so that's another reason that I'm trying to run away before I get attached. Do I pursue him because I was his first or do I lay low and move on? Thanks in advance!

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Kinkee · Jan 2005

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I am confused. So were yall boyfriend and girlfriend or just cut buddies?

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lilbrownqt05 · Jan 2005

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friends with benifits

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lilbrownqt05 wrote:
I have too much going for myself. I have nice hair, a car....

****, look at THIS sh*t. :roll: Sorry, that just made a lot of stuff run through my head. ANYWHO, in response to your situation, I think you need to make up your mind. You say you don't wanna be a cut buddy, then make that clear. Why say "I don't wanna f*ck you anymore cuz I have a lot going for me" :lol: and then backdoor and f*ck him one last time. And honestly, from the way you started your story, it seemed like he just wanted to f*ck you anyways, hence all of the comments about you in his bed. So do you really love this brotha, or did you just catch feelings cuz ya'll were bangin'? Also, how does he feel about you? When you told him you didn't wanna be his **** buddy anymore, did he say that he wanted more or was he just like "aight"? Personally, I don't think you should pursue him cuz you were his first, if anything, he would pursue you if he wanted to really be with you.

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JerzeyQueen · Jan 2005

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Dr. Ash wrote:
lilbrownqt05 wrote:
I have too much going for myself. I have nice hair, a car....
****, look at THIS sh*t. :roll: Sorry, that just made a lot of stuff run through my head. ANYWHO, in response to your situation, I think you need to make up your mind. You say you don't wanna be a cut buddy, then make that clear. Why say "I don't wanna f*ck you anymore cuz I have a lot going for me" :lol: and then backdoor and f*ck him one last time. And honestly, from the way you started your story, it seemed like he just wanted to f*ck you anyways, hence all of the comments about you in his bed. So do you really love this brotha, or did you just catch feelings cuz ya'll were bangin'? Also, how does he feel about you? When you told him you didn't wanna be his **** buddy anymore, did he say that he wanted more or was he just like "aight"? Personally, I don't think you should pursue him cuz you were his first, if anything, he would pursue you if he wanted to really be with you.

i Agree with you completely. Couldn't of said it better myself. Personally, I think that he just wanted to fukk from jump.

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