Will you pay for it ?
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Started by xavierette
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Feb 2005
I have a question to teh men of this board
When it comes to your girlfriend or just someone u really like, are u the type that spends money on them. Now I dont mean a dinner here and there I mean paying for hair, nails, small shoppin sprees, and imaybe even an allowance. If you dont do it , would you if you could afford or do u abosoluetly no spend money on a female like that ok....... go 8)
When it comes to your girlfriend or just someone u really like, are u the type that spends money on them. Now I dont mean a dinner here and there I mean paying for hair, nails, small shoppin sprees, and imaybe even an allowance. If you dont do it , would you if you could afford or do u abosoluetly no spend money on a female like that ok....... go 8)
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Women that I deal with go through stages.
In that "getting to know you" stage, I only spend money on things that we can both do and enjoy with one another, such as, Dinners, Movies, BlockBuster Nights, Weekend Getaways.
Nothing Material.
In that "new relationship" stage I will spend money to get things done for her, with or without me, such as hair, nails, pedicure, massage, day of beauty and pampering.
Still nothing material.
In a deep relationship I'll give her money or buy material things she can enjoy.
Both my money and my time are investments.
The more money I am investing in her, the more valuable my time with her should feel to me.
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I would pay for some of it like mabye 2once is a while but with the unnecessaries stuff.......yall on ya own
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When did it become my responsibility to pay for her hair, nails, and shopping sprees? Is she payin for me to get my haircut or my new Js?
laidbackfella wrote:Women that I deal with go through stages. In that "getting to know you" stage, I only spend money on things that we can both do and enjoy with one another, such as, Dinners, Movies, BlockBuster Nights, Weekend Getaways. Nothing Material. In that "new relationship" stage I will spend money to get things done for her, with or without me, such as hair, nails, pedicure, massage, day of beauty and pampering. Still nothing material. In a deep relationship I'll give her money or buy material things she can enjoy. Both my money and my time are investments. The more money I am investing in her, the more valuable my time with her should feel to me.
Da_Rodfather wrote:When did it become my responsibility to pay for her hair, nails, and shopping sprees? Is she payin for me to get my haircut or my new Js?

