Something new to talk about

Do we even really want to talk about something new? *inhales* Because men and women havent really changed much over the years... We talk until we either like or dislike the person. Im sure there are the few, like I, who converse to enlightenment or get life's questions off my chest but when has it ever been okay to do this sh*t... Woman: Hey let's have a conversation Me: Okay. *3 minutes of random conversation* Woman: You're insightful, are you single? Me: N... Woman: Not like it matters, you're so *random compliment*. Lets go out to eat sometime. Me: B... Woman: You dont have to answer now, its okay really. I really like your style and...youre just so easy to talk to! Me: *shaking my head, trying to push out that annoying ringing noise in my ear* So basically she didnt want to indulge in my intelligence (not to sound showy), but rather...she wanted to know I was intelligent enough not to be stupid. At that point, aside from everything else, thats all she needed to then like me. How in the f*ck, after a few words of conversation, do you derive ANYONES personality? Thats how people get in the sh*t theyre in. Thinking they already know someone when there are so many facets to the human personality and psyche that its hard to even know yourself. I just need a witness...