behind closed doors....

P o e t i q R e i g n wrote:

i'm starting to believe that too many brotha's find it waaaaaaaay too easy to call a female a "B*tch" when they're **** @ her.....even from the people i'd least expect it.... Qua....thas my buddy, no doubt....but he know i definitely wasn't feelin' him callin' the female he's feelin' a b*tch....when she wasn't cooperating about them hookin' up...& made the comment about him not being able 2 come see her or whateva.... my friend Jason...was REALLY...REALLY feelin' some chick @ his school...i mean, dude sounded like he was in LOVE...& kept talkin' about approachin' her about his feelings & whatnot....that was, i SWEAR, like TWO WEEKS ago......& now....she a "crazy b*tch" . . . ......& when i ask him, "aiight, Jason...tell me...how is she crazy?"...he can't give me a legit response....but even if he COULD...i'm like DAMN...u were JUST feelin' the ISH outta her (or so u SAID)...how could u possibly call her a "b*tch" now?!? & then 1FocusedBrotha....the "never trust a big **** & a smile" thread.....that's what inspired this, lol... i'm starting to believe ALL DUDES call females "b*tches" behind closed doors..... dudes....is this a regular thing for ya'll? i mean, when u get with ya boys or female friends - even when u ain't upset - do u call us that??? i mean, dag....i'm just curious.... & ladies....is this a frequent thing among your male friends...or no? & while we're on the reference of "b*tch"....a friend of mine told me that a white male friend of his told him somethin' like, "i hate to tell u this, but when Black people aren't around...we (White people) all call ya'll the N word" i was like daaaaaaaaag....like u always hear Black folkz sayin', "man, i bet White folks call us 'n*ggers' all the time behind our backs!"....but to actually have a White person ADMIT it...& MEAN it.......lol i don't know - that's just a trip 2 me...