"you're only saying that because u haven't...."

Yea and I found out in some situations you actually don't understand, but at the same time that doesn't make your advice invalid. I think that's actually another excuse next to "none of us are perfect". I really don't think too many people are in the position to tell another individual, independant mind that they don't understand, when they don't know everything that the other has gone through. I don't think a person has to directly go through certain things to understand what another person is goin through tho. I can say more but I'm finish.

not to be rude, but can some one break that down for me.........long **** posts thanks