It's the approach that counts

18 replies · 10778 views · Started by So_Focused · Jul 2005

So_Focused

Landover, MD

So_Focused Landover, MD

Guys do you prefer girls who remain available for YOU to approach them or do you find it attractive for a female to approach you. In some situations, guys find it aggressive when a female makes the first move. while other dudes see it as a postive thing. So I'm sayin, tell me how yall feel about it.

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La · Jul 2005

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TheRealOne from Tallahassee, FL · Jul 2005

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Honestly I wouldn't mind if a girl approached me. I'm glad that she let me know instead of throwing out some stupid hints. Most of the time, though, I would approach the girl. Really, it doesn't matter to me.

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· Jul 2005

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So_Focused wrote:
Guys do you prefer girls who remain available for YOU to approach them or do you find it attractive for a female to approach you. In some situations, guys find it aggressive when a female makes the first move. while other dudes see it as a postive thing. So I'm sayin, tell me how yall feel about it.

Now, me/myself/personally, a girl who isn't afraid to approach me is subtlely(sp?) tellin me that she's not your average girl. That in itself is enough to make me greet her approach with open arms. It's damn near 2006. Females need to get rid of that "I dont approach men" attitude. If she feels like she's too good to approach a man, that tells me that she feels the same way about A LOT OF OTHER DIFFERENT THINGS ALSO....

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Miss. Soulful from Macon, GA · Jul 2005

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Kool 5000 wrote:
So_Focused wrote:
Guys do you prefer girls who remain available for YOU to approach them or do you find it attractive for a female to approach you. In some situations, guys find it aggressive when a female makes the first move. while other dudes see it as a postive thing. So I'm sayin, tell me how yall feel about it.
Now, me/myself/personally, a girl who isn't afraid to approach me is subtlely(sp?) tellin me that she's not your average girl. That in itself is enough to make me greet her approach with open arms. It's damn near 2006. Females need to get rid of that "I dont approach men" attitude. If she feels like she's too good to approach a man, that tells me that she feels the same way about A LOT OF OTHER DIFFERENT THINGS ALSO....

Well for me, i'm very shy, guys think that i'm stuck up because i won't approach them, when its just because...... i'm to shy to just walk up to somebody and talk to them. Now if this guy is one that speaks whenever i see him, just a hi or how's your day, i will approach him in a way to start a conversation, and see were it goes from there.