Can she still be a wifey if she already has a baby daddy ??

8 replies · 3415 views · Started by xavierette · Aug 2005

xavierette

Ok I know most of you are young college men on ther verge of being very successful in your profession of choice. My question to the men of this board is....In this time in your life would u seriously deal with a lady that has children or would u simply leave her alone. If u would leave her alone then why?

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La · Aug 2005

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Serpent King wrote:
For me personally, dealing with a woman that had a baby is the type of responsibilty that I'm not ready to deal with. I don't know if people realize it, but when you have a baby, all your priorities change. Where as I might wanna take her out for a night, she has to first find a baby sitter. Do I have to worry about her baby's daddy actin **** or something? It's just stress that I'm not ready to deal with. I'm not saying that I wouldn't ever wife up some body with a baby, but that's just the thing...I'd be WIFING her up. Right now, I still have to get my Sh*t in order. I can't worry about 2 other people at the same time.

thats fair and understandable.

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· Aug 2005

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^^cosign to all the above and to add on.... Messing with women who have kids is kinda dangerous in several situations. It's almost like askin for a broken heart, because most of the time their remain sprung on there baby's father. That's what I know just from seeing it tho.

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The Nomad from Silver Spring, MD · Aug 2005

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Led by Fire wrote:
^^cosign to all the above and to add on.... Messing with women who have kids is kinda dangerous in several situations. It's almost like askin for a broken heart, because most of the time their remain sprung on there baby's father. That's what I know just from seeing it tho.

I don't think most women get sprung on their baby fathers more than they just get caught up in the notion that they would wish that the baby father's could be more like the guy that has come into the child's life and been accepting. However, we know that having various men stream into the lives of children is not helpful, especially in the sense of bonding with with a male figure. Therefore, a man shouldn't choose to be with a woman that has children unless he's ready to stick it through. I'm pretty sure most college aged men aren't. Most men probably would only look at a woman with a child because they figure sleeping with her would be no problem. I wouldn't get involved with a woman with a child unless I have a child running around with a woman I don't plan to settle down with. I can't exclude in that case.