****?

UnintentionlyMe wrote:

'manda wrote:

f**k thugs. gimme a pharrell.

I know right. But this is for the birds. Some women like the **** types for one of three reasons: 1. They want to be rebellious against what they know their parents would want for them as far as a man goes. 2. They think there is some thrill in dating a "bad boy." Especially with how the music industry glamourizes (is that a word???) the **** life. :???: Of course their misinterpretation is revealed once they start going to bed with a black eye and busted lip every night. And... 3. They are just plain stupid. Bottom line. Give me a preppy college boy anyday.

demmeri wrote:

What's the deal with black chicks and thugs? Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? and why does the black suburban-raised male have to pretend to be a **** just to get yall to respect him and to give him some coot? this is the main reason why i'm thinking about only messing with the latina cha chas.

A BEAUTIFUL MIND wrote:

demmeri wrote:

What's the deal with black chicks and thugs? Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? and why does the black suburban-raised male have to pretend to be a **** just to get yall to respect him and to give him some coot? this is the main reason why i'm thinking about only messing with the latina cha chas.

Don't use black women wanting thugs as the reason why you're thinking about dating latina or other non-black women (because you know good and well not all black women are after thugs and definitely not all latina or non-black women want a good boy.) If you have to pretend to be a **** to get some "coot" from some black women then those are probably the ones you should stay away from. Some black women may want thugs b/c this is basically the image they are taught to accept through the media and especially through their own experiences and upbringing in their neighborhoods and so on... so the **** image becomes appealing. The rough-necks, the bad boys, these are what men are supposed to be like in their minds and anything that contrasts this image (i.e. a man who speaks proper English, isn't aggressive, ****, doesn't wears his clothes baggy or listens to a lot of rap music, and he appreciates a good education) is weak and women usually don't want to be with a man who they believe is weak in their own minds. Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? Fatherless idiots? Ever thought that these "idiots" didn't have a positive male role model to emulate and only got their info on how to be a man from their mothers, drug dealers, rappers, pimps etc. Not every black male can come from a two parent home from the suburbs like yourself so forgive them if their irresposible mother could not choose a mate wisely and that their irresponsible father could not be there for them.

'manda wrote:

A BEAUTIFUL MIND wrote:

demmeri wrote:

What's the deal with black chicks and thugs? Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? and why does the black suburban-raised male have to pretend to be a **** just to get yall to respect him and to give him some coot? this is the main reason why i'm thinking about only messing with the latina cha chas.

Don't use black women wanting thugs as the reason why you're thinking about dating latina or other non-black women (because you know good and well not all black women are after thugs and definitely not all latina or non-black women want a good boy.) If you have to pretend to be a **** to get some "coot" from some black women then those are probably the ones you should stay away from. Some black women may want thugs b/c this is basically the image they are taught to accept through the media and especially through their own experiences and upbringing in their neighborhoods and so on... so the **** image becomes appealing. The rough-necks, the bad boys, these are what men are supposed to be like in their minds and anything that contrasts this image (i.e. a man who speaks proper English, isn't aggressive, ****, doesn't wears his clothes baggy or listens to a lot of rap music, and he appreciates a good education) is weak and women usually don't want to be with a man who they believe is weak in their own minds. Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? Fatherless idiots? Ever thought that these "idiots" didn't have a positive male role model to emulate and only got their info on how to be a man from their mothers, drug dealers, rappers, pimps etc. Not every black male can come from a two parent home from the suburbs like yourself so forgive them if their irresposible mother could not choose a mate wisely and that their irresponsible father could not be there for them.

UnintentionlyMe wrote:

A BEAUTIFUL MIND wrote:

demmeri wrote:

What's the deal with black chicks and thugs? Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? and why does the black suburban-raised male have to pretend to be a **** just to get yall to respect him and to give him some coot? this is the main reason why i'm thinking about only messing with the latina cha chas.

Don't use black women wanting thugs as the reason why you're thinking about dating latina or other non-black women (because you know good and well not all black women are after thugs and definitely not all latina or non-black women want a good boy.) If you have to pretend to be a **** to get some "coot" from some black women then those are probably the ones you should stay away from. Some black women may want thugs b/c this is basically the image they are taught to accept through the media and especially through their own experiences and upbringing in their neighborhoods and so on... so the **** image becomes appealing. The rough-necks, the bad boys, these are what men are supposed to be like in their minds and anything that contrasts this image (i.e. a man who speaks proper English, isn't aggressive, ****, doesn't wears his clothes baggy or listens to a lot of rap music, and he appreciates a good education) is weak and women usually don't want to be with a man who they believe is weak in their own minds. Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? Fatherless idiots? Ever thought that these "idiots" didn't have a positive male role model to emulate and only got their info on how to be a man from their mothers, drug dealers, rappers, pimps etc. Not every black male can come from a two parent home from the suburbs like yourself so forgive them if their irresposible mother could not choose a mate wisely and that their irresponsible father could not be there for them.