Disappointed...

So there was boy that i liked in my math class in the fall who sat behind me, lets call him jay, i had such a middle school crush on him that even when he asked to borrow a pen or pencil i would turn to my friend and be all 'omg gurrl he borrowed my pencil' l0l...i never got up the nerve to talk to him all semester. Throughout the spring i would see him around at parties and picnics and stuff, but i still couldnt get the confidence to talk to him...Then at the end of the year i was at my homeboys house and in walks jay, and im like yess i finally get to meet him, talk to him, vibe with him...At the end of the night how disappointed was i to find that jay, was in nice words, a lame who i did not click with in any kinda way l0l....dang there i go again puttin people on pedestals So i guess what im askin is has anythin like this ever happened to you...you really think u like someone until you get to know them, and no matter how good you thought they looked before, after they open their mouth your like ohhhh H*NO!! L0L

I can't say that I have. If I had a crush on a female I'd interact with her like anyone else...with a lil flirting here and there of course. So I'd know if she wasn't all that I thought she would be, before I pursued. "dang there i go again puttin people on pedestals" That line reminds me of the line from 40 Year Old Virgin..."You're puttin the p*ssy on a pedestal!" Do you still let him borrow pencils?

She didn't like his dougie. Dayumm.

yep but then i got to step back n be like wait do i even know this dude? ill casually talk to a dude and if theres a vibe then i check him out, i think dudes are attractive but i gotta remind myself theres more to it than just that...

So he was a square?

yah basically, not much of a personality, all he was interested in was tryin to come to my apartment even tho it was like 4am and i jus met him 5min ago...i think my problem is that i tend to put people on a pedestal before i get to kno them...gotta stop doin that lol