Are women to picky when it comes to choosing a mate?

I agree with Spelgirl...I have high standards, but not so high where they would be too unatainable. And honestly, just from reading what other girls have said they want in a man in another posts, our standards can definitely be met, when the right man decides to come along. GO HERE, and you judge if our standards are too high http://www.hbcu-central.com/cafe/viewtopic.php?t=5621

why not ask men the same question?? like i should settle for a busted crackhead :lol:

Yeah I have high standards. I want my man to be tall, dark, smart, athletic, responsible, all that crap but come on now when you meet that one boy yall know yall be like oh f*ck the standards. I'll save those for my husband. I always say I want my man to be all of what I listed but I ain't never had that all in one.

Yes, women are picky. And me are picky also.

everybody's picky when it comes to choosing a mate... it's a 2-way street... we all have the high standards for choosing a long-term mate... and when we can't find the right one... we settle for the one right now... but i can be picky myself... and i know a lot of females are choosy, b/c they don't wanna get hurt, and deep down, males don't either, but they don't want to admit it and settle for the one that's there at the moment