If you could turn back the hands of time....

no undoing of deaths or severe injuries/illnesses....i know most of us would like to stop someone we loved or cared about from makin' a decision which ended up takin' their life...but let's try to keep that from this thread.... Really this thread is meant 4 u to state some big regrets you've had w/ certain people in your life...past & present...if you could do things even slightly differently...what you would do.... But you can name some other regrets that don't deal with people...or that aren't as big...if ya like....

U first

I wish i didn't treat some people as bad as i did i used to be one evil little girl. and i wish i didn't treat my old boyfriend the way i did. it wasn't that bad.

*sighs* Ok... I regret that i did NOTHING as far as my grades go in highschool..I took all honor courses but i aint do shyt..thus my 2.7 gpa. *sighs* I regret that i didnt tell certain guys my feelings...i regret how i handled ****w/ my then best friend in the 8th grade..I regret wha i did to my ex best friend....lol..i regret some of the arguments me and my moms got into..and i regret that i didnt push myself harder in basketball :roll:

I don't really regret anything, because everything I have done has shaped me into the person I am today

:arrow: i regret slackin my grades junior year...this the first year since 4th grade i've never made honor roll...took all honors courses but slid from a cumulative 3.89 to a MUPHUCKIN 3.4!,meaning my regular gpa is only a MUPHUCKIN BARELY THERE 3.0!=NOT AS MUCH MONEY$ FOR COLLEGE AS I COULD HAVE GOTTEN HAD I (wo)MANNED UP AND TOOK CARE OF BUSINESS!but i did get my flat **** kicked by algebra II this year .... :arrow: I regret not keepin in touch with this dude as far as music. he used to help me arrange music once a week, & had a bunch of studio equipment but after a while i stopped workin wit him somuch. once he wazn't workin wit music so much he started hanging wit the wrong crowd again, now he'll be in prison for a long time. I wonder if I had still be workin wit him, we woulda been making some $beats$ the day he got involved with what he did **much love, Dre** :arrow: i also regret thinking that i could change a man, because i only changed myself in the process, but it'z all good 'cuz i'm on my way going places & he's in neutral not doin SH!T :arrow: I regret ever becoming bulimic because although i'm getting better,like an alcoholic, a bulimic never recovers so i'ma always have those little voices in my head f*cking with my self-image

***Yes I regret my grades in high school too. My **** gpa was a 3.0. Iregret mot turning my fafsa in on time ( I can't wait till next Jan 1) ***I regret the way I treated my ex. He was really sweet to me, he took me out to dinner and paid for my stuff, put gas in the car, opened doors, told me that I was so beautiful... ahhh had a flashback. Those were good times, good times... I should have showed him that I appreciated him more. I learned my lesson ***I regret not applying to more hbcu's. once I got accepted to Hampton I was so excited that I didn't apply any where else (but Spelman). I didn't consider that maybe I wouldn't get the money from financial aid, and wouldn't be able to go.

I dont regret anything because everything happend for a reason, and without those events happening i would be in a different and perhaps unwanted place....WHooo But I will say that if i had to do things over again i would not spend so much time and energy on people who do nothing but cause me stress