The parent's place...
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Started by queenluvin4u
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Jul 2004
queenluvin4u
Westampton, NJ
OK...now my bf and i have been together for 6 months now and so my mother knos him and his mother knos me. Now my bf is two years older than me so now that i have jus graduated from hs, im going to a college that is very very near him. You mite be thinking that im following him, but thas not the case at all. Anyway, my mother adores my bf as much as i do, but his mother is not to fond of me at all. Im kinda upset about this, but hey what can i do. I jus wanna kno who out there has had the same experience and how yall took it and did it affect ur realtionship. HOLLA.
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It might make your relationship stronger or it might tear you two apart its up to you and yor s/o to make that call.
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Well my situation was kind of different from yours. My mother didn't like my although he was always nice and very respectful to her. He'd say hi to her and she'd just ignore him. He offered to take her to dinner and she was like WHY? He said so they could get to know each other and my mom was like"You're her boyfriend, I'm her mother, what else do we need to know about each other?". My mom would trip about every little thing. She'd let my go out and spend the night at my friend David's house but if I was going out wit my bf she'd trip and be blowin up phone if I stayed out past 12, wantin to know my every move. His mother on the other hand absolutely adored me, she still does even though me and her son are no longer together. She literally told everybody that me and her son were getting married and she still calls me to this day her daughter. We still have a close relationship. She's like my other mom. I can be more open wit her than my own mom, its kinda sad!
I never been in this situation, but if his momma doesnt like you...you might as well deal with it or break up with him and hopefully she will warm up to u. But after 2 years she still aint warmed up to u she apparently just doesnt like you...There must obviously be a reason she dont want you with her son. ( no offense )
My boyfreind's mom didn't like me becasuse she thought I was like all of his other girlfreinds and tryna get pregnant and trap him into marriage *yeah she was on that goood stuff for a hot minute* eventually because I'm so charming 
she warmed up to me. If you honestly like/love the boy...you gotta find a way to get over it or work it out.
she warmed up to me. If you honestly like/love the boy...you gotta find a way to get over it or work it out.
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queenluvin4u wrote:OK...now my bf and i have been together for 6 months now and so my mother knos him and his mother knos me. Now my bf is two years older than me so now that i have jus graduated from hs, im going to a college that is very very near him. You mite be thinking that im following him, but thas not the case at all. Anyway, my mother adores my bf as much as i do, but his mother is not to fond of me at all. Im kinda upset about this, but hey what can i do. I jus wanna kno who out there has had the same experience and how yall took it and did it affect ur realtionship. HOLLA.
