For the Fellas: what do YOU look for in a girl?

^ lol ok... looks: I don't have a specific mold for the girl to fit into...as long as she's attractive to me, then I'm good... personality..........this is the big one. She has to be laid back...good sense of humor...I love to laugh, and I enjoy making people laugh...she also has to have a strong mind. I love a good debate, and I love good conversation...and she HAS to have a relationship with God, that's absolutely essential. I do have some weaknesses though...I do love a girl with musical/creative talent...whew...especially if she can sing........and there are some other weaknesses, that In won't go into at the moment...

I try not to put limits on what I like in a person, but some attributes that she should have are intelligence, a sense of humor, loves herself, etc.

Turn-ons: She has to be intelligent, have a great sense of humor, not be too damn "girlie" while at the same time carrying herself as a self-respecting black woman. I just like females that know how to set it off where they go, whether in the club, in the cafe, or in a the dorms chillin'. I like to have fun, so she needs to know how to geek off of off-glass ish too. Turn-offs: GAMES! I hate girls that play games! Nothing pisses me off more. But hey, two can play.......

*had to throw in my ten cents on the subject -I think a major thing I look for in a woman, especially if it is a lovely lady of Howard, has to be the ability to be secure with herself and trusting her man. Like you all know, the ratio is to the advantage of the men, and I have seen a lot of women doubt their ability to trust their man. I know there are some women who have valid reasons not to trust guys, but if they have doubts, then why try to engage in the relationship if they already beleive their man is gonna do them wrong?