What would you do if you were in his shoes?
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Started by Wisdom_Tree
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Oct 2004
^^^I concur....
Good Luck Tres...::hug::
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Things are best as they already are. The first girl is a good friend, and you should leave it that way. Good friends don't always make good lovers, and if they don't you've destroyed the friendship. The other two are out of your life by choice. I would leave it that way.
There's more opportunities out there. Sometimes it is better to get a fresh start than open up old wounds. Holla!
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You're single for a reason Tres. Most peeps look at it as a negative thing sometimes, but this is really an important time in your life. Thru singlehood u truly have time to focus on yourself, your needs, and your issues. So when the RIGHT relationship with the RIGHT lady comes along, you can truly be equipped to handle it. I know i'm supposed to be putting myself in YOUR shoes, but look...i've been single all my life, not ONE relationship. And yeah, i have my whiney moments, but i trust that God has had it that way for a divine reason. All i can tell u to do is let go & let God. If u are truly meant to be with one of these young ladies, it will all unfold in time. Don't force it. :wink:
*PURE*Kindnezz wrote:You're single for a reason Tres. Most peeps look at it as a negative thing sometimes, but this is really an important time in your life. Thru singlehood u truly have time to focus on yourself, your needs, and your issues. So when the RIGHT relationship with the RIGHT lady comes along, you can truly be equipped to handle it. I know i'm supposed to be putting myself in YOUR shoes, but look...i've been single all my life, not ONE relationship. And yeah, i have my whiney moments, but i trust that God has had it that way for a divine reason. All i can tell u to do is let go & let God. If u are truly meant to be with one of these young ladies, it will all unfold in time. Don't force it. :wink:
