Losing Faith in Womankind...

*hugs Megan* you wont be left fending for yourself - some guys gonna jump your bones and fall crazily for ya. *nods* And youll spawn and have babies as **** as sin Naw Im messin...

this is personally why i dont get serious with potential guys... GOOD GUY: this particular guy was a sweetheart, decon of his church, saved sanctified filled with the holy ghost(hallelujah) he stayed almost a hour and a half away from me but came to see me almost 3 times a week. anything i asked for i got(though i didnt ask for alot). things were good for about a hot 2 months, then things started to change. im a musician and a poet. he told me " If i was goin to be his woman, i would have to get my tat's removed(2 tats) i would have to perm my hair( at the time i wore it natural, fro and all) i would have to stop going to the poetry spot(cause i should be in church friday nights and sunDAY) and unless i used my talents for God(poetry and playin the sax) i would have to stop. now this is supposed to be the good guy??? "BAD GUY": me and this guy have been talkin for a HOT HOT year, he doesnt want a relationship(because it would be long distance) he doesnt trust me( because im not in the same city as him) he loves the fact that i will do my own thing(poetry, jazz). but this is the guy that you dont want a relationship with cause he is the "****" the one people might think will go upside ya head,(but he's never touched a female like that) . Sayin all this, my point is, the obvious might not alway be whats good for you. cuase i want a God fearing man, but not at the expense that i have to stop being me to have him. The Bad Guy may not always be as bad as you think( Visa Versa)