Trending Search Settings

long distance relationships

24 replies · 6283 views · Started by t2dakwont · Feb 2008
t2dakwont
i know a lot of you guys are about to graduate and head on into college as the class of 08. this question/discussion is open to all students tho but how u guys feel about long distance relationships? anybody in one right now that they wouldn't mind sharing about? like do u plan to end it with ur beau when august comes? i know i found my guy my senior year of highschool and was like "**** there's no way i can let this guy slip through my fingers". we've been together almost three years and for almost two we've held it down as a long distance relationship, seein each other only over breaks (thanksgiving, xmas, and summer vacation). its not exactly for the weak-hearted but i actually think it has made our relationship a lot stronger. we're able to meet other people (meet not date) and see wat the world is like without one breathin on the others neck. not to mention when we DO see each other it's almost as if seeing one another for the first time. just wanted other pplz thoughts
Share
Reply
Page 2 of 3 First<123>Last
C Nels · Feb 2008
#11 Reply
BisonBoy wrote:
Now see thats wat i call grade A, proving tha stats wrong... I mean im sure out of the 1 and 4 african american males whom are supposedley future priosners there's a group of four, with four doctors....lol Nah really congrats tho man... ur an acception to the rule...
Thanks my brother!
Report
Quote
BisonBoy · Feb 2008
#12 Reply
yup - Long distant pimpin...
Report
Quote
babigurl870 · Feb 2008
#13 Reply
Jamaican Shawty wrote:
I've seen the end results of long distance relationships and I rather spare the stress and drama and put a pause on the relationship when I leave....remain friends..chill on breaks..and if the feelings are still mutually present after I graduate....MAYBE we can rekindle whatever spark we had. Fair enough right...?
This strait sounds like me a month ago....I'm currently in a long distance relationship right now, and we have been discussing "us in college". I was all for breaking up and gettin back together later, maybe, until I started catchin real hard feelings for him. Now I kinda feel like we should stay together as long as we can. I'm still pretty torn on what to do and I made him stop talkin about it until that time came.
Report
Quote
t2dakwont · Feb 2008
#14 Reply
babigurl870 wrote:
This strait sounds like me a month ago....I'm currently in a long distance relationship right now, and we have been discussing "us in college". I was all for breaking up and gettin back together later, maybe, until I started catchin real hard feelings for him. Now I kinda feel like we should stay together as long as we can. I'm still pretty torn on what to do and I made him stop talkin about it until that time came.
trust me if it is meant to be it will prevail all...as ive stated, im in one now. its tough but if u feel like he's worth it and vice versa then you'll be fine
Report
Quote
Phylicia215 · Feb 2008
#15 Reply
I think they can work if the two people trust each other and have developed a deep, emotionally-connected relationship. If not the distance can tear two people apart. But of course its nothin wrong with trying if both parties think it can work.
Report
Quote
· Feb 2008
#16 Reply
Nyla wrote:
I'm in a long distance relationship at this present time. We've been together for a year. I've known him since I was 15yrs old. He's my best friend and I hope to one day become his wifey! (Mrs. Norris) We both know the long distance is temporary due to our career choices but, we hanging in there..lol. I truly couldn't ask for a better mate.
AWWWWWW....that is so sweeet! Just when I thought Disney was lyin' to us all...
Edit Delete Report
Quote
Nyla · Feb 2008
#17 Reply
i*heart*pie wrote:
AWWWWWW....that is so sweeet! Just when I thought Disney was lyin' to us all...
LoL.. U silly.
Report
Quote
TSUblueTiger · Feb 2008
#18 Reply
Personally, I have never experienced a long distance relationship. However, if distance is the only issue, I would not be opposed to it. If things get serious enough, the distance will only be a short term problem. If an individual is compatible with you, don’t let the distance bother you.
Report
Quote
t2dakwont · Feb 2008
#19 Reply
TSUblueTiger wrote:
Personally, I have never experienced a long distance relationship. However, if distance is the only issue, I would not be opposed to it. If things get serious enough, the distance will only be a short term problem. If an individual is compatible with you, don’t let the distance bother you.
couldnt have said it better myself! dont let the distance **** the love! its hard...lord knows it is hard but if he/she means as much to u as u say then it is definitely worth it!!!! LONG LIVE THE LDR (long distance relationship)!
Report
Quote
BisonBoy · Feb 2008
#20 Reply
Anyone have any long distance relationships that "didnt" work... Or am i the only one...
Report
Quote
More Discussions
T.I. - "Trauma Bond" w/Tuskegee University's Marching Band (Official Video)
klg14 · Yesterday
0
Dudley Cosmetology University closes after 54 years
klg14 · 1w ago
0
No. 4 seed Langston Advances to Championship Game (March 24th at 7pm CT)
klg14 · 1w ago
0
Got an academic scholarship offer from Tuskegee University for the Fall 2026 semester?
klg14 · 2w ago
0
Community Supported Agriculture Is Rooted in Black History (Mother Earth News)
klg14 · 2w ago
0
Reply To Topic

Join the conversation! Login or sign up to reply.

Don't have an account? Sign up free

Page 2 of 3 First<123>Last
Featured Jobs & Internships

University of Arizona | School of Government & Public Policy
SGPP Assistant Professor of Practice (Career-Track) 0.5 FTE in TUCSON, AZ

Front Range Community College
Coordinator, Program in Westminster, CO

Grinnell College
Director of Business & Finance Career Community in Grinnell, IA

Front Range Community College
Faculty, Nursing in Westminster, CO

Front Range Community College
Faculty, HVAC in Fort Collins, CO

W.W. Norton & Company
College Publishing Sales Representative, Oklahoma/Arkansas in Tulsa, OK

Massachusetts Institute of Technology
Director of Exhibition Design and Production in Cambridge, MA

Columbus Zoo and Aquarium and The Wilds
Marketing Coordinator in Powell, OH

Columbus Zoo and Aquarium and The Wilds
Zookeeper (Aquarist), Shores in Powell, OH

Columbus Zoo and Aquarium and The Wilds
Rides Maintenance Technician in Powell, OH

Framatome
Mechanical Robotics Design Supervisor in Lynchburg, VA

Framatome
Robotics Control Engineer in Lynchburg, VA

Framatome
Civil/Structural Lead Engineer in Lynchburg, VA

Framatome
Component Engineering Supervisor in Lynchburg, VA

Framatome
Welding Engineer in Lynchburg, VA
Subscribe!
HBCU CONNECT
Follow Us!
Facebook Instagram Bluesky YouTube Flickr LinkedIn
Featured Members