Wedding Bells for any of you guys?
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Started by smc112
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Apr 2008
smc112
Laguana Hills, CA
I guess I might need to direct this question to the guys ages 23 and up. Are any of you guys thinking about marriage in the near future and if so, what's making you want to commit? I've found that a lot of guys are waiting to their late 20's and early 30's to get married. Why is that? Is that the golden age for guys now to settle down? On the flip side, what's taking you so long to get married? Alright, fellas... let it rip! 
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smc112 wrote:I don't know if you were waiting for a reply from the guys or not, but I feel that people should date at least 2 years before they marry. After two years, everything should be revealed about a person. People can't hide their true nature for two years, because it will start to come out. The importance of waiting is for you to see the good, the bad, and the **** in the person. If you see signs of things that you can't deal with in a marriage, you might need to leave. When I say things you can't deal with, I'm not meaning that he/she leaves dirty socks on the floor. What I'm talking about is character issues. If the person has character issues you couldn't deal with in a marriage, you need to leave. I can't deal with a man who lacks integrity. In the past, I've dated guys who lacked integrity, and I realized that is not what I want in a marriage.
) I think people who have long distance relationships, just build a big fantasy in their head about the other individual. You need to be around a person, especially if you are thinking about marriage. It can be a big eye opener if you marry someone, who you aren't hardly around. There might be some things that you find out, that you can't deal with. I feel if a couple is thinking about marriage, one of them needs to move to where their partner's located.
