Why do Guys LIE about What they Want in a Relationship??

25 replies · 12658 views · Started by sabrinaashields17 · Jul 2008
Okay, So I have a question when a Guy meets the WOMEN That could possibly be the "ONE" they spend time together,Love everything about each other, met each others parents ect... Why do They LIE about what they want From the Person??? I know Alot of guys whem they hang out they talk just as much as women do about THEM but when marriage and other topics are at hand they'er like OOO NOOO I will never get Married but then they'll put on a Front and tell U(Ladies) Yeah I wanna Get Married and Kids and all that other Stuff!!! Then when we call them there Guys are Like SHE got U on a Leash and all that other B** Ish!! LOLZ
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cutie4life · Jul 2008
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sabrinaashields17 wrote:
I AM WITH U ON THAT 1 BCuz Half the Gurls THat go to my school are Now Having KIDS Bcuz thats what there Dude Told Them!! Why they would want mess up their Lives Like that IDK??? Then on top of that The Guys are Not Cute and Have No GOALS Thats why Im Not dating at my School!!!
I wish a dude would tell me..when to have kids..he would get knocked upside his head..and I be damned if I dated a dude with no goals..I mean come on now..a guy with no goals..what is he going to do for me..lol..
TSUblueTiger · Jul 2008
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sabrinaashields17 wrote:
Okay, So I have a question when a Guy meets the WOMEN That could possibly be the "ONE" they spend time together,Love everything about each other, met each others parents ect... Why do They LIE about what they want From the Person??? I know Alot of guys whem they hang out they talk just as much as women do about THEM but when marriage and other topics are at hand they'er like OOO NOOO I will never get Married but then they'll put on a Front and tell U(Ladies) Yeah I wanna Get Married and Kids and all that other Stuff!!! Then when we call them there Guys are Like SHE got U on a Leash and all that other B** Ish!! LOLZ
I am not sure why we are sometimes not honest. Don’t base your judgment on what you hear. Base your judgment on what you see. Therefore, if his actions align with his words, you should believe it. As far as the friends, don’t worry about them. If they are his friends, they will respect his lady. Just keep working to improve your relationship with your boyfriend. I am sure everything will be ok.
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sabrinaashields17 · Jul 2008
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EXaCLY, MAMI THERE JUST A BUCH OF CHICAS MUDO CON ningún CEREBRO!!! (DUMB GURLS WITH NO BRAIN!!!) LOLZ
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sabrinaashields17 · Jul 2008
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TSUblueTiger wrote:
I am not sure why we are sometimes not honest. Don’t base your judgment on what you hear. Base your judgment on what you see. Therefore, if his actions align with his words, you should believe it. As far as the friends, don’t worry about them. If they are his friends, they will respect his lady. Just keep working to improve your relationship with your boyfriend. I am sure everything will be ok.
YEAH Im NOT WOORRRIED ABout his Friends To say the least.. I JUST Call that BarberShop talk Thats All LOLZ
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keishaberry88 · Jul 2008
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cutie4life wrote:
I wish a dude would tell me..when to have kids..he would get knocked upside his head..and I be damned if I dated a dude with no goals..I mean come on now..a guy with no goals..what is he going to do for me..lol..
i definately agree with you on this one. i have a little one and no one forced me to have him. i chose to and i let my man know that if he wants to stay around he has to stay on his stuff or else i'm gone.
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sabrinaashields17 · Jul 2008
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Thanks to all who replyed to this
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C Nels · Jul 2008
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De nada
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sabrinaashields17 · Jul 2008
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Great Job!!
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sabrinaashields17 · Jul 2008
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TO ALL OF MY CHICAS AND CHICOS THERES A PART 2 Coming Soon!! )
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NeoSoulBrotha · Jul 2008
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sabrinaashields17 wrote:
Okay, So I have a question when a Guy meets the WOMEN That could possibly be the "ONE" they spend time together,Love everything about each other, met each others parents ect... Why do They LIE about what they want From the Person??? I know Alot of guys whem they hang out they talk just as much as women do about THEM but when marriage and other topics are at hand they'er like OOO NOOO I will never get Married but then they'll put on a Front and tell U(Ladies) Yeah I wanna Get Married and Kids and all that other Stuff!!! Then when we call them there Guys are Like SHE got U on a Leash and all that other B** Ish!! LOLZ
Sometimes they don't know what they want. If a dude doesn't know you that well (and you can't get to know someone well in a few weeks), he honestly doesn't know yet if you will be someone he wants to spend his life with. Other possibilities... he is interested in you, and doesn't want to scare you off so he says what he thinks you want to hear. Or, he may have an agenda. But for those types, you'll probably recognize that up front.
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