white ppl using the "N" word

Auight I have a question about white ppl using the "N" word.... Why is it coo foe a white boy who hangs around **** all da time be able to use the "N" word?? Now i don't give a fukk if u frm da burbs or da hood, u bet not ever let me hear u say da "N" word... Shouldn't dude catch an **** whoopin 2.

^^LOL

Maybe it's because I didn't grow up in the south, but it is kinda "hard" to really get offended when a white boy says "****" to me or around me when I know he isn't saying it in a derogatory way. This is how I see it...for somebody like me, when I heard the word "****" 98% of the time it was from black people who were just sayin it as many of us do, meaning no harm. Therefore, when I hear the word, it doesn't send any trigger any emotional feelings as it does to adults who were used to hearing the word only when they were being insulted and put down. That is why I can see why adults hate the word, and when they hear it, they get mad that blacks still use it. But for somebody like me, to get mad because I heard a white boy say "whas up my ****" would be absurd because I know he doesn't mean it in a bad way, and because it is stupid to say "we can use it because we're black but you can't because you're white." Regardless of whatever the popular belief is, that statement is as contradictory as it gets. When a white person says it meaning insult, then I will take offense, but if a white or asian or mexican uses it, I will look at them a bit strange but I really can't be offended as most blacks seem to act. I know most won't agree with that, but also, look at it this way...how much black do you have to have in you to be able to say the word, if it really is a thing that ONLY we can say? What if somebody is 50% black? What about 25%? Do they have to have a certain percentage? When you break it down to that level, then it really gets complicated and shows the ignorance of the statement.

^^^there is no know need to break it down like that. Think about it, who would say ," I can say ni99er because my grandfather or great grandfather is black" ? And if someone did they are simply just trying to hard.

i dont think a white person should call us **** even if they playing or just having a conversation. its really disrespectful, how would they feel if we call them a "****" :?: http://members.blackplanet.com/cherrybottom69

WUZ UP MY CRAKKKA? :wink: