HOW DO YOU WANT TO BE TREATED?
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Started by Dnell-n-Atl
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Jul 2004
Dnell-n-Atl
Cincinnati, OH
WHATS UP LADIES, I HAVE SOME QUESTIONS ABOUT HOW DO YOU ALL WANT TO BE TREATED OR APPROACHED. IM NOT TALKIN ABOUT GAME OR NOTHIN BUT JUST YOU ALL POINT OF VIEW.
1. WHATS THE DEAL WITH THE WANTING THE **** OR THE DUDE THAT WONT DUE RIGHT BY YOU. YOU COULD HAVE A BF AND HE COULD CHEAT/LIE/OR EVERY ABUSE(DONT CONDONE IT). AND SOME(NOT ALL) WILL INSTANLY SAY WELL HE LOVE ME OR I SHOULD GIVE ME ANOTHER CHANCE. OR YOU WILL LEAVE THAT ONE AND JUST GO STRAIGHT BACK INTO THE SAME KIND OR RELATIONSHIP. THIS BOTHERS ME BECAUSE A GOOD MAN WILL COME AND THE FIRST THING YOU WILL DO IS KEEP HIM AS A GOOD FRIEND OR HE IS NOT MY TYPE, BUT THIER TYPE IS THE KIND THAT LIE AND CHEAT ON YOU. SO WHAT ARE YOUR VIEWS ON GIRLS WANTING THE BAD MEN.
2. I HAVE HEARD COUNTLESS FEMALES SAY THEY ARE GETTING TIRED OF A DUDE TRYIN TO GET THEIR NUMBER AND SAYIN "SHORTY", "MA","REDBONE"...ETC SO WHATS YOUR IDEA WAY FOR A DUDE TO APPROACH YOU..... BUT WHEN A DUDE COMES UP TO YOU AND SPEAKS POLITE AND MANNERFUL GIRLS THINK HE A LAME OR ACTS WHITE LOL, SO HOW WHAT ARE SOME THINGS THAT YALL LIKE OR DISLIKE.
OH YEA THESE ACCOUNTS ARE NOT PERSONAL JUST SOMETHING THAT SEEN AROUND AND ALWAYS WANTED TO KNOW THE DEAL......
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1-thugs and no good males are 2 different things. i've had my fair share of thugs and i love em to death. even if they are out of the streets and juss have the **** mentality. they get stuff done and make other things happen. i'm guilty of the good friend thing. sometimes u just don't want to ruin a great friendship with a messy relationship. i'd b hurt if i lost a good guy friend ova sum bs that comes with a relationship
2-i love when a guy approaches me and genually sounds interested or he catches my attention by making me laugh. i hate when guys come up to me and seem too polite cuz i'll automatically think its game. i don't care bout tha shorty and the ma thing while u talkin to me but don't yell down tha street and round the corner for me. get cha lazy **** up and walk up to me nicely.
#12
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1. Like others have said not everyone wants a man who treats them bad because I know I don't. But how the media(videos) portrays many of our black men is through the "****" or the "****". Since this is mainstream(or IN) this is what some females think is right.
2. No I don't like males calling me ma or shorty because that is a mess. This is how I feel about being approached by a male. I feel that I am a black queen and a child of God, so I am royalty. And since I know I am royalty(and all other females) I would like to be treated as such. If you approach me with manners I have no problem with that because that would be correct, but body language and eye contact can sometimes speak louder than words.
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ladies that respect themselves desire and deserve to be treated with respect. as far as the approach, i like when guys are confident and comfortable w/ themselves. every guy can't pull off the **** thing and every guy isn't a smooth, sweet-talker. JUST BE U! if a guy is real w/ himself first (and it shows when he aint) and then me, his chances are much greater
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Every woman wants to be treated like a princess. Point blank. I don't care if it's Queen Elizabeth or the Hattie the ****, everyone woman loves to feel like royalty. When the dude approaches a female, that's how he should come at her. I'm not saying he should BOW DOWN or nothin (...although that would be nice now that i think about it :wink: ), but on the real, just treat her like a lady.
But i do hear what u are saying, becuz part of the reason why women are being approached the way they are and why they are being treated the way they are, is because they don't open their mouths and demand more. 8 times out of 10 when a dude comes at a female with that whole "shorty/ma/baby" thing, the girl thinks it's cute and just giggles. We say we want one thing, but we still accept the things that we claim we "don't like". And to the guys who are saying "what if the guy wasn't raised intelligently??", honestly...it's doesn't take too much intelligence to speak to a female with sense. I'm not asking the dude to solve a mathematical equation...just come at me like u would want someone to come at your own mother or sister.
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jaz wrote:1-thugs and no good males are 2 different things. i've had my fair share of thugs and i love em to death. even if they are out of the streets and juss have the **** mentality. they get stuff done and make other things happen. i'm guilty of the good friend thing. sometimes u just don't want to ruin a great friendship with a messy relationship. i'd b hurt if i lost a good guy friend ova sum bs that comes with a relationship 2-i love when a guy approaches me and genually sounds interested or he catches my attention by making me laugh. i hate when guys come up to me and seem too polite cuz i'll automatically think its game. i don't care bout tha shorty and the ma thing while u talkin to me but don't yell down tha street and round the corner for me. get cha lazy **** up and walk up to me nicely.
:? I've heard this said on the AUC Strip :x Thank God not to me because that girl was nice to keep on walking, I wouldn't have been :roll: 
