Intelligent advice and common sense needed, please post!!

Ndyvidual wrote:

I fortunately don't have the problem of not liking my school (Sh*t, i love it), but i know people that hate it. Whatever school you go to, there are going to be things that you hate - that's life period. The most you can do is make the best out of it. You tens of thousands of dollars to get a degree not be everybody's friend. That's cold but Sh*t, that's the truth. And the longer you stay at the school, the more pride you will have for the school because you've invested time and money in the institution. So, don't feel bad about having to go back cause believe me there are probably plenty of people that want to leave but can't go anywhere else either

Sweet_Girl wrote:

I feel that it is okay for you to move to the college that you transfered from. For whatever reason that was the choice that you made and it is your business to decide to come back. You should learn that people have nothing to do with the decisions that you make. As an adult we make difficult decisions but sometimes you have to do that. Regardless of you not liking your school, it is what you are there for that you should be concrned with. Your education is the whole reason just think of it as a learning experience and you can always meet new people. As far as you still being a sophmore that is ok too. I have to go a extra semester than what was expected because I changed my major but that is the least of my worries what is on my mind is to strive to excel even farther. As long as I am in a major that I know I will enjoy it does not matter if I have to go a little longer because at the end it is worth the wait. I really do not care what people think anyway because I am trying to make something out of myself and with Gods help I will.

Carolina Cowboy wrote:

Dang'onit... I wanna know what school he's talking about now... :?

fscballin wrote:

This is how it goes the situation: my first year at my HBCU i hated it, so i decided to transfer....that didn't exactly work out to my advantage, so i decided to enroll back at my former school..... problem: how the hell do i go back to a school, which i hated and laughed at, as i left... i mean, im a 20 year old young man with integrity, dignity, and self respect....how pathetic looking is it for me to crawl back to the place i loathed/despised now knowing that it was a dumb decision for me to even leave???? (im also still gonna be considered a sophomore for some reason :cry: ) i mean, am i suppose to blend in like i never left? the friend situation is kinda shaky 2, since i basically lost contact with most of the n!ggaz i chilled with the whole thing just feels weird to me, and i could use some friendly advice, or at least some sort of empathy.... holla at me p.s. im kinda giving this specific HBCU its right to anonymity .....should that matter tho