Would you let her keep your last name??

25 replies · 7810 views · Started by KärolinaPläyboy · Jul 2004
KärolinaPläyboy charlotte, NC
Ok, we all know that in divorce, many times the woman keeps her ex-husband's last name. I wanted to get a census on how everyone feels about this. Would you want your ex-wife keeping your family name even though you aren't together anymore??? personally I wouldn't want some girl walking around sharing my name like that if we weren't together. It sounds like there could be some type of security risk with that. Like she could access certain things with various accounts, etc. or something. *in his creator voice* "I made thou, and I shall take thee Awayyy!!" :lol:
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La · Jul 2004
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Express'd wrote:
the man cant ask for the last name back
Are you sure about that? :? Cause I have heard of men asking for their names back, and when not wanting to give it back so its a big dispute that ends up in court...
jadekiss · Jul 2004
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My name is going to be hypened when I get married so that my family's last name doesn't die with me and my siblings. He can have the damn name back if he wants it so bad he has to take me to court...but he's sure as hell gonna pay for all the paper work.
Punk'd · Jul 2004
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* $ JaMila $ * wrote:
Express'd wrote:
the man cant ask for the last name back
Are you sure about that? :? Cause I have heard of men asking for their names back, and when not wanting to give it back so its a big dispute that ends up in court...
i've never heard of that, but like i said, if a girl really wants to hold onto it whats to stop her from just changing it back
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· Jul 2004
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U seen when Tina Turner said" all see wanted was her stage name" and she got it...What could Ike do?....Not a damn thing.. :?....LOL
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what's_on_my_mind · Jul 2004
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My mom is divorce and she has my dad's last name... She kept the last name because it was my brother and I last name... I think in situations like this, the mother should keep the last name....
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cupcake8503 · Jul 2004
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what's_on_my_mind wrote:
My mom is divorce and she has my dad's last name... She kept the last name because it was my brother and I last name... I think in situations like this, the mother should keep the last name....
Yeah I heard something like this on a episode of "All of Us".
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La · Jul 2004
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cupcake8503 wrote:
what's_on_my_mind wrote:
My mom is divorce and she has my dad's last name... She kept the last name because it was my brother and I last name... I think in situations like this, the mother should keep the last name....
Yeah I heard something like this on a episode of "All of Us".
Me too...Its when Robert wanted Tia, his fiancee, to take his last name...and she basically didnt want too because the ex wife Niecy was holding onto it for the sake of their child.
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ManifestDSTiny33 · Jul 2004
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JadeKiss wrote:
My name is going to be hypened when I get married so that my family's last name doesn't die with me and my siblings. He can have the damn name back if he wants it so bad he has to take me to court...but he's sure as hell gonna pay for all the paper work.
I don't know what I'm gonna do.,... I can't hyphenate cuz my last name is 10 letters, sothat will be ruff on my kids.. I wouldn't keep the last name (it wouldn't seem right.. God forbid any divorce in my life) and I wouldn't wan't to keep my last name by itself (I like the way MRS. so and so sounds..).. oh well.. I'll cross that brig\dge when I come to it.
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La · Jul 2004
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When I get married ima be MS. JAMILA R. H**** 8). I just love how that sounds.
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KärolinaPläyboy · Jul 2004
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JadeKiss wrote:
My name is going to be hypened when I get married so that my family's last name doesn't die with me and my siblings. He can have the damn name back if he wants it so bad he has to take me to court...but he's sure as hell gonna pay for all the paper work.
thats kind of like a smack in the face for the husband (unless your a super-star celebrity that has a REASON to hyphenate 2 last names due 2 business.) :cry:
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