Why do Ladies say, "I have more guy friends than girls'

52 replies · 27472 views · Started by K�rolinaPl�yboy · Jul 2004

charlotte, NC

K�rolinaPl�yboy charlotte, NC

I ALWAYS hear girls saying that they have more guy friends than girls. Everytime I hear it, I can't help but to think, (even 4 a split second) that she's giving it up to alot of guys,etc. Why do girls not have closer relationships with their own gender? more importantly, why do we want to know that you have more males in your life than females??

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· Jul 2004

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I never even thought about it... where I'm from, especially in my high school, we're all just brothers and sisters basically. I never sat and thought about why I hang with more guys (I didn't even realize it was mostly guys in the group until now). But to tell the truth, the girls I hang around (and it's a lot) don't start any mess. It's the guys, lol. And about girls being shady and whatnot... you can usually tell who's real and who's not after a couple of conversations. In my experiences, it's kind of hard to get hurt by a female because I can tell if she'll be real or not. And I keep the fake ones as associates... it should be expected, so there's no reason to trip if something happens. I don't think girls are petty and dramatic, just some. And on the same token, there are lots of guys who are petty and dramatic. So I pretty much have an even number of male friends and female friends.

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Poody from Sandy Springs, GA · Jul 2004

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yeah what errbody else is saying

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· Jul 2004

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I don't think some of these chics realize how silly they sound when they say this. A lot of them are basically bragging about not being able to get along with other females :? how is that a good thing? For a chic to say "I don't get along with other women", to me, is like saying "I don't get along with myself". These same chicks be blowing someone's "hatred" for them waaay out of proportion as well..."girls just be hatin on me all the time, that's why I can't get along with them" :roll: never do they stop and think that maybe something is wrong with them and their attitude.

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Princess LaRonda · Jul 2004

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I pretty much don't deal with females because I know how I am I guess I'm trifling...or whatever you wanna call it... I'll be honest.....and I tell females this....I JOKE ALOT so sometimes I don't think they believe me...but my real friends know I'm forreal about it... If you're an associate...somebody I just hi/bye with...then your man is up for grabs.....if ya'll aint married...and he down for the count.... HE MIGHT JUST BE MINE..... HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEYYYYYYYYYYYY I know how females can be so I limit myself around them....lol

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La · Jul 2004

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DreamGirl1908 wrote:
I don't think some of these chics realize how silly they sound when they say this. A lot of them are basically bragging about not being able to get along with other females :? how is that a good thing? For a chic to say "I don't get along with other women", to me, is like saying "I don't get along with myself". These same chicks be blowing someone's "hatred" for them waaay out of proportion as well..."girls just be hatin on me all the time, that's why I can't get along with them" :roll: never do they stop and think that maybe something is wrong with them and their attitude.

:nods head: I feel you on that...

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~Q*Killa~ · Jul 2004

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I ALWAYS hear girls saying that they have more guy friends than girls. Okay, I'm with you Everytime I hear it, I can't help but to think, (even 4 a split second) that she's giving it up to alot of guys,etc. Ouch, not neccesarily true (cuz I havent and surely dont plan on doing any of my friends) but okay I can see how you'd think that Why do girls not have closer relationships with their own gender? A lot of us do. Me, I only have 2 female friends (4 categories of people for me: 1 fam, 2 friends, 3 associates, 4 people I know) as opposed to 4 male friends but I'm very close to my moms, my sisters, my aunts and most of my female cousins. So I guess it's like I'm closer to more females than males but I have more male friends than female friends :? I guess. more importantly, why do we want to know that you have more males in your life than females?? That's a good question. Unless you're like my boyfriend or something and want to know why I talk to Devon, Anthony, Justin and Curtis everyday then that's just not part of a casual conversation. Then again if you are my bf then you know me and already know how it is. Maybe that didnt help too much cuz I'm just speakling for moi, but then again that's just me.

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· Jul 2004

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DreamGirl1908 wrote:
I don't think some of these chics realize how silly they sound when they say this. A lot of them are basically bragging about not being able to get along with other females :? how is that a good thing? For a chic to say "I don't get along with other women", to me, is like saying "I don't get along with myself". These same chicks be blowing someone's "hatred" for them waaay out of proportion as well..."girls just be hatin on me all the time, that's why I can't get along with them" :roll: never do they stop and think that maybe something is wrong with them and their attitude.

Please....stop......the truth might make their heads explode. "Wait....you mean.....there's something wrong with ME?? That's UN-POSSIBLE!" ****** Females are just paranoid for no damn reason: "She think she look cute." "She is ssooooooo fake" "She just jealous of me" "She's just hatin' on me, that's all!" That's why its always funnny whenever I talk to a Spelmanite about the "Sisterhood" they have other there. They say that its obvious and evident within the first 2 weeks, but after that..........Sisterhood goes out the door and Caddiness comes in and sets up shop. Maybe I should stop.......before folx start to think I'm "hatin'"

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