To All tHe FeLLaS
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Started by 2damnREAL
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Aug 2004
This is to my REAL MEN
If/when you become fathers PLEASE take care of your kids..Even if you slip up and have a kid with your girlfriend and she becomes your baby momma,and then ya cant stand her! (sorry) Take care of your lil ones...ESPECIALLY those who grew up without a father. You would understand the pain of having a DEADBEAT DADDY who doesnt care for you,tells you he's gonna take you here and there and never shows up...I'VE been there and still am there! my father does more for my brothers and ignores moi.....
And I see history repeats itself...My babydaddy doesnt care for HIS daughter and I dont want her growing up with hate for the dumb **** but ya know...
So anyway, that's all i got to say...DONT EVER SAY I AINT TELL YALL NOTHING :wink: :lol:
#11
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I kno how it is growin up being basically the only damn male in the family. Gotta support thew kids mayne
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This is a great message that many need to take into great consideration and I am glad u put it up..but i also want to insert a lil tidbit...the men need to definitely step up and take the responsibility for their children but so do the women because their are many women who either abandon their children our doin't support...i know that for a fact..i am a product of it...but much love to ya, keep doing your thang, and your daughter is blessed to have a mother like you-1LUV
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Good message, I now have a family, My wife and my 13 month daughter. I all tell my parnters this one thing though, " Every woman that you sleep with has a chance of being a part of your life for the rest of your life [ie baby momma], whether you want her there or not. So marinate on that one for a minute.
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Claimin True wrote:This is for the record ladies. A real man will not blame his ignant **** father for him being sorry or for not taking care of his own kids. Also, I am tired of fellas talking about how their life was so bad because their father was not there. f**k him feed him fish. The only thing I got from my father was my name and a coloring book for my 16th birthday. I feel that it takes credit away from all the single moms who raised college educated or otherwise successful kids when someone yells i wish my dad was there. My mom was my dad and mom and she was all I needed. It might be a good thing that he wasn't there... at least his lying, cheating, criminal minded **** wasn't there to badly influence me. When ever you feel like you wanna blast away at a deadbeat dad, use the energy in a positive way and call your moms and tell here you love her. Peace out.
