Femalez...... Question?

Dr. Ash wrote:

I don't think it's an issue of ya'll hangin with ya boyz, cuz like you said, they were around before the girlfriend and SHOULD be there after ole girl is gone...BUT I think the problem arises when you spend ALL of your damn time with ya boyz like ya'll are married or something. If you know you don't want to, or can't contribute the time or at least EFFORT to the relationship with your lady to actually make her feel like she's a part of your life, then YO' **** should NOT get a girlfriend. Think of it this way...how are ya'll supposed to grow together as a couple if you never spend any time together? On the flip side, I know some of us ladies are a little TOO needy and act like our boyfriends are the only friends we have. My hope is that you realize ole girl is like this while ya'll are in the talkin process and maybe avoid a serious relationship with her altogether.

JsGyrl1110 wrote:

AggieWarrior wrote:

King_J wrote:

Da_Rodfather wrote:

Man I been readin some of this shyt. Why the fukk ya be so damn bitter that we hang around our boys? Hell most of the time our boys were in the picture long before you were and hell they gonna be there after you leave. GET THE FUKK OVER IT...... We dont get mad when you go hang out wit ya girlz

Where did this come from Rod? Did u and some girl just get into it about it or what?

i dunno where it came from, but he got a very valid point... y'all assume the worse out of us :roll:

JadeKiss wrote:

Dr. Ash wrote:

I don't think it's an issue of ya'll hangin with ya boyz, cuz like you said, they were around before the girlfriend and SHOULD be there after ole girl is gone...BUT I think the problem arises when you spend ALL of your damn time with ya boyz like ya'll are married or something. If you know you don't want to, or can't contribute the time or at least EFFORT to the relationship with your lady to actually make her feel like she's a part of your life, then YO' **** should NOT get a girlfriend. Think of it this way...how are ya'll supposed to grow together as a couple if you never spend any time together? On the flip side, I know some of us ladies are a little TOO needy and act like our boyfriends are the only friends we have. My hope is that you realize ole girl is like this while ya'll are in the talkin process and maybe avoid a serious relationship with her altogether.

Amen! Amen! Amen! AMEN! This applies to females AND males. A relationship is another aspect of your life that requires attention and devotion. If you want this significant other to be apart of your life, then include them in your life, spend all day with your boys...then why are you even WITH the girl?

Personality wrote:

mannnnnnnnn sometimes "hangin out" with your boys gets tooooo ridculous