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27 replies · 8209 views · Started by KnowledgableTruth · Oct 2004
KnowledgableTruth Cincinnati, OH
Go through a guys phonebook in his phone or call history and see that he has called his ex and just decide to give her a ring... This guy went through my phone...saw that I had called my ex...and decided to give him a ring....I was beyond ****.... Has this ever happened to you...what would you do?
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JsGyrl1110 · Oct 2004
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Dr. Ash wrote:
I'd be upset as well. Going through someone's phone is invading their privacy and displaying a lack of trust and I can't have that.
Cosigns.....I know when I have gone through someone's phone it has not been because i want to find something, or dont trust someone, i just like cell phones and think they r cool....and see what everyone has on theirs and maybe once in a while i will look and say something like hey u have a lot of numbers or something stupid like that or make a joke about something...if i am cool with them...its not always cause u dont trust someone. ~ 1LUV
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nequa143 · Oct 2004
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well my mom always said don't go through a mans thing you might find something you don't want to see! and with that being said if he did that to me i would be mad as all hell.
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AggieWarrior · Oct 2004
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that's really none of your business.... morally i shouldn't do it, but i have been guilty of it... b/c i'm protective w/ my phone, and i shouldn't do it to my girl's phone
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· Oct 2004
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no I wouldn't go through his phonebook and do something like that reason being....sometimes if you look for something you might find out something you do NOT want to know.... if a nuggah went through my Sh*t and called somebody like that...ITS OVER...because that's just childish..it's silly and very very disrespectful....if you gotta do all that then you don't trust me...and if you don't trust me get the f ck out of my face...WHY ARE WE EVEN TOGETHER? ya know?
True!! That type of stuff is really immature. If you don't have trust you have nothing. If you don't have confidence in your man's or woman's love for you , then you also have nothing and you need to let it go. Plus, I know folks who have gone through a person's cell, and when they had it done to them, they got all hypocritical and --ish.
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Kinkee · Oct 2004
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He really shouldn't have done that. But in a relationship, it is a lack of trust and very disrespectful.
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diamond_princess04 · Oct 2004
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KnowledgableTruth wrote:
Go through a guys phonebook in his phone or call history and see that he has called his ex and just decide to give her a ring... This guy went through my phone...saw that I had called my ex...and decided to give him a ring....I was beyond ****.... Has this ever happened to you...what would you do?
That is a definite no-no. The only time i went through my friend's phone was to add the rest of my number's( i have about 3 or 4 places where i can be contacted).
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NeoSoulBrotha · Oct 2004
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The ex is always off limits. This is for guys and girls. Same thing goes for "black books" and phone lists. When you start talking to someone, it assumes there's a clean slate. In other words, innocent until proven guilty. Whatever happened before you hooked up is irrelevant, unless you have reason to think otherwise. If you can't trust someone enough where you need to check up on them, then you're probably with the wrong person. Likewise if they need to check up on you. Holla!
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Kinkee · Oct 2004
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NeoSoulBrotha wrote:
The ex is always off limits. This is for guys and girls. Same thing goes for "black books" and phone lists. When you start talking to someone, it assumes there's a clean slate. In other words, innocent until proven guilty. Whatever happened before you hooked up is irrelevant, unless you have reason to think otherwise. If you can't trust someone enough where you need to check up on them, then you're probably with the wrong person. Likewise if they need to check up on you. Holla!
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· Oct 2004
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I ain't gonna front, i have gone through a guy's (my ex) phone before, but that was because of trust issue. I mean i know some girls/guys who go through their significant other's phone, but I think that happens when there is no trust. Basically when that happens you might as well go ahead and nip that relationship in the bud.
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In Rod We Trust · Oct 2004
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(Miss Kee) wrote:
NeoSoulBrotha wrote:
The ex is always off limits. This is for guys and girls. Same thing goes for "black books" and phone lists. When you start talking to someone, it assumes there's a clean slate. In other words, innocent until proven guilty. Whatever happened before you hooked up is irrelevant, unless you have reason to think otherwise. If you can't trust someone enough where you need to check up on them, then you're probably with the wrong person. Likewise if they need to check up on you. Holla!
Cosigns
double damned cosigns..................
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