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so fellas, why do we treat them so bad?

24 replies · 8809 views · Started by Hahaha · Mar 2005
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aight man, here's my take on why women these days get treated like crap.. it's about 90% their own dayum fault...we don't repect them because they don't repect themselves... they don't repect thier bodies, the way they dress, the way they behave, ect ect... so why would i repect someone who doesn't repect themselves? the women of the 50s didn't have yalls problems, and i wonder why... stop trying to sag and be "a n!gga" and be a lady...we don't repect **** and hoes, but any wild man wouldn't dare to hurt a classy chick....you ever notice how the goody good girls aren't prayed upon by thugs? it's not that they don't find them attractive, it's more because they don't want to "even hurt dat gurl, ya dig?"...classy girls are the "untouchables"... ladies, up ya class game and you'll get men to repect you more...we don't repsect gurls based upon thier thuggish, hoeish repatations...
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· Mar 2005
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demmeri wrote:
men usually don't disrepect the classy chicks...
Lol. Where you live at?
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· Mar 2005
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damn. i'm sure yall already know how i feel about subjects like this. some men just so funny. "she act like a hoe i'm going to treat her like a hoe"??? that's some bull for real. some men are so hilarious. but seriously, megan said all that needs to be said so i'm out...
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Imaginelyfe06 · Mar 2005
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MissJazzyAKA wrote:
MeganJerai wrote:
So what you're saying is...men should continue to disrespect women who disrespect themselves? Wouldn't the best thing to do is, be the bigger person? Two wrongs don't make a right. If it keeps being "tift for taft" nothing will ever change. And I bet you they're are more classy women getting disrespected.
The best thing i've heard all day!!!! Your comments are not only one point but they are true. But people never take responsibility for their actions. They will continue to blame others for something that they did.
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ClassyWisdom08 · Mar 2005
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Females obviously do things for the attention of males. I mean they aren't doing it to please themselves or to have other females look at them. They are looking for love and the right attention but they seem to just settle for whats convenient, just to fill that void. Question to guys: Why not pull that female aside and let her know that she doesn't have to do those things to get attention?? I think it would be more effective, seeing as how most of them live for what yall say , anyway.
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MidWestGentleman · Mar 2005
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MissJazzyAKA wrote:
Females obviously do things for the attention of males. I mean they aren't doing it to please themselves or to have other females look at them. They are looking for love and the right attention but they seem to just settle for whats convenient, just to fill that void. Question to guys: Why not pull that female aside and let her know that she doesn't have to do those things to get attention?? I think it would be more effective, seeing as how most of them live for what yall say , anyway.
i think most females would look at me like i was crazy or try to cuss me out or somethin esp if shes with her "girls" or whatever....esp some of these ghetto a$$ girls out here...
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IgnoranceIsBliss · Mar 2005
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Psychologically, the way people treat us or have treated us can affect our lives and the way we act. For example, if you were abused as a child by a parent and that might have something to do with the way you behave or act socially. But ultimately, it's you that controls your life and how you choose to live it.
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· Mar 2005
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demmeri wrote:
aight man, here's my take on why women these days get treated like crap.. it's about 90% their own dayum fault...we don't repect them because they don't repect themselves... they don't repect thier bodies, the way they dress, the way they behave, ect ect... so why would i repect someone who doesn't repect themselves? the women of the 50s didn't have yalls problems, and i wonder why...
So u say its almost all our fault...wrong!! We have the right to dress and act anyway we feel. Just because its not what u want, then we disrespect ourselves? If I choose to walk down the street with a mini skirt on, then so be it. That doesnt give any guy the right to call me a ho or ****, because they dont know me. Your makin assumptions about women u dont even know! Example: If u saw my sister, u might classify her as a "ho because she likes to wear short skirts and what not. But what u dont know is that she's a virgin, holdin down two jobs and workin on her Ph.d. So dont assume things cuz when u do u make an **** out of yourself.
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Hahaha · Mar 2005
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^^naw i wouldn't repecet her because of the way she carries herself... 8-) (nessa)
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La · Mar 2005
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I just pretty much agree with all the females on this thread, and it just baffles me how men are SO QUICK to point out the faults of us women, and say we deserve to be disrespected when we dont carry ourselves a certain way, etc..but MEN never point the fingers at themselves....yall always have some bullsh*t excuse..." she doesnt respect herself, so Im not gonna respect her " " she acts like a ho, so Ima treat her like a ho. " When are yall gonna take responsibility and acknowledge the fault in yourselves and in carrying this type of mentalty...sorry but this aint the 50s no more...times have changed....Do I think its okay for a girl to fukk an entire block...No...she should have self respect for herself...but just because she DOESNT doesnt mean YALL have the right to not treat her like a person and disrespect her by calling her names....The whole block that fukked her...are they not as triflin as she is..DO you not treat them with respect cause they dont respect themselves. NO ya dont. Why? because their men? but its a female doing the same thing...shes a ho who doesnt deserve respect. The double standards are just ridiculous, i swear.
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kiwi_stl · Apr 2005
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It is true that most women deserve to be disrespected. Not because of the way they dress but because they don't demand respect. For example when I first met my boyfriend he was so nice but after he felt like he had me he started actin out, not returnin my phone calls, standin me up for dates and etc. All I had to do was show his @ss that he was not in control and now he's beggin to have me back. Callin every day and sendin flowers. It's hard to believe it's even the same guy but I realize that respectin ourselves means not allowing anyone to treat u like sh*t. The sooner most females realize that the sooner they can take back their lives and we will really be back to the 50's when men cherished their women. Still haven't decided whether I forgive his @ss or not
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