are you gonna beat your kids?
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May 2005
Hahaha
Greensboro, NC
lol u r never anything less than a riot to me :lol:
demmeri wrote:*smh* as for everything else you said.... I definitely do agree that physical discipline HAS to exist in the home.....not physical abuse....physical discipline.... Because like you said, we've seen what lack thereof....has done for the children of today....not good....not good at all... And particularly for the generations that are yet to be....they gonna be some lil' BAD @$$es (even worse than be4), we all know this.....unless we rear them like most of us were reared.... However... I don't agree with what you said about you being the only disciplinarian.... I've known many people who were disciplined physically by either both parents...or just their mothers....and they ended up coming out just fine.... I can't remember where I heard this....but there was a mother who allowed that to happen in her home....like, the whole time her children were growing up, she always let the father get 'em when he'd get home.....and somewhere along the line, she felt she was no longer respected by the children....'cause they thought they could get away with a whole lot more around mama....and knew BETTER, when it came to daddy..... She felt they didn't have for her that same respect for a parent that a child is supposed to have....that they had for their father... And I'm not havin' that.... Knowing me, it'll probably be hard to physically discipline my children, lol...but....I know you gotta do what you gotta do.....and okay, maybe my husband can be the primary disciplinarian....hmmm, I don't know....but I want to receive the same respect from them as he receives.... and finally, i'm gonna REALLY need for you to STOP BLAMING EVERY DAMN THING ON ****!! i've refrained from saying this, but damn HALF the stuff you say aren't even because of ****...they're because of your little conservative buddies....or both.... you're hilarious....but i dunno if they do something major, stealing, lying, disrepecting me or their mother (stacy dash...or chick that can do a split...or white girl)...they're gonna get it...
I will whoop my kids but only when its REALLY necessary. I would prefer just putting them on punishment for a week so they can think about what they did and why they wont do it again. But I agree, sometimes a whoopin IS necessary. Its sumthing I wouldnt wanna do, and I can see myself being one of those moms who just gave her son/daughter a whoopin, and going to my room and getting emotional afterwards cause it would hurt me to see me have to physically hurt my child for them to behave. Hopefully, my child will be well behaved like I was and they wont have to get beat or punished often, cause like I said in the other thread...I only got 2 whoopins in my whole life.
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Lady_ J wrote:I will whoop my kids but only when its REALLY necessary. I would prefer just putting them on punishment for a week so they can think about what they did and why they wont do it again. But I agree, sometimes a whoopin IS necessary. Its sumthing I wouldnt wanna do, and I can see myself being one of those moms who just gave her son/daughter a whoopin, and going to my room and getting emotional afterwards cause it would hurt me to see me have to physically hurt my child for them to behave. Hopefully, my child will be well behaved like I was and they wont have to get beat or punished often, cause like I said in the other thread...I only got 2 whoopins in my whole life.
