Don't Beat Your Kids..HAZE Them..
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Started by 1FocusedBruh
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May 2005
Ok..I'm in a debate with someone of the idea of hazing kids over beating them.
I'm a firm believer that beating your kids doesn't really send them a lesson. In which you have to continually beat your kids because they will continually act up. I know plenty of times I was beaten by my pops or moms and laugh because I was still wearing my Jordan's and playing my video games..
My pops got smart and stopped trying to lay a belt on me but lay a hand on my prized possessions. I went from rocking Jordans to ocking the shoes I mowed the yard in. Super Nintendo and t.v to NOTHING..My pops wouldnt even let me watch tv with them or even when his friends were around for a football game..He forced me to stay in my room..
Hmm..It's kind of like being pledged or in the the NPHC's word, "Hazed".
I will never beat my kids. I will make their lives a living HELL if they ever f*ck up..I'm sorry but pain only lasts a hour but the experience I would put you through would last forever..
My kids will know not to f*ck up..Believe me..lol
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I like the method that my mom used for discipline. She would first explain to me what I did and why it was wrong. Then she'd let me know her feelings about it. This hurt me more than any whippin or "hazing" that she ever gave me because I was hurt to know that I had dissapointed her. After our talk she'd proceed to beat the hell out of me, then she'd tell me I couldn't go outside or watch television. She never took the things out of my room, cause she knew I knew better than go against a punishment. I never wanted to know if it could get worse than it was.
Her method was effective and I turned out to be a very well rounded respectful person. I think that her method is something that I would use, but again it does depend on the child.
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MissJazzyAKA wrote:I'm a firm believer in communicating with your children. When they mess up, it's the parents job to set them str8, but in a way they will understand. Hazing them is not the way to get your point across. It only shows how angry you are.

