should i stay or go? ::UPDATE 05/27::
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Started by itz_m0delchiiq
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May 2005
okay im facing a problem within my relationship...this post is a little long but i wanted to give yall details...please respond with GOOD advice.
aii well me and my boyfriend met when he lived in new york. at the time i had just got out of something, and wasnt really trying to get into anything. he understood and we were just cool. he moved to north carolina because he got a scholarship to play ball at duke. about 8 almost 9 months ago we got together (yes he was in nc and i was in ny)...things were good, he knew i had a trust issue and he said he was willing to gain my trust which he did. things were going real good, i mean even though we were in different states we were still close as all hell. he grew to be one of my best friends, i mean he was there when i lost one of the pple in my crew, and was there when a few months later i lost my best friend...he was actually the one who pushed me to start doing good in school again. (now i know your tryna see where the problems come in...im getting to it.) well recently (past month or so), we havent been as close, i mean we used to talk on the phone ALL day, but now its not like that. when i call him he is always on the other line and needs to call me back, ill call sometimes he wont pick up the phone and later will say his aunt had it or his cusin. and like if he is on the other line he will say its with his mom or aunt or some family member...thing is he isnt THAT close with his family. like i said he gained my trust, but that female instinct is telling me that other stuff is going down..GRANTED he does have a lot going on in his life right now, and ive been right there by his side through it all, but it just seems like we are falling apart. i told him that i felt we were falling apart and ask if he still wants to stay together, he tells me he does and loves me more then anything...just i dont know anymore. its hard now being so distant, er'time he is supposed to come to new york something happens. i just dont know what to do...PLEASE GIMME YOUR THOUGHTS! thanx, yeah i know this is long...sorry :grin:
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AggieWarrior wrote:But when you say "ball" you mean, basketball football or baseball?Sed_Ated wrote:m0del_chiiq wrote:nah...he is playing in the fall or whenever it starts. he moved there though because he had to do some stuff before the season starts...but look out for him, i mean i must say my baby ::sigh:: is duummmb nice!! yall gonna see him on your TVs in a few years...but uh yeah im outthe rabbit wrote:oh Sh*t he play for duke whas his name did he play this past year?
). And I think I know who you're talking about.
Lol. But yeah let me let people get back on topic.
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