The ShadeyJade Advise Post!!!

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ShadeyJade Charlotte, NC
Yeah........ hit me up with them questions because I feel like answering them!!
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· May 2005
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ShadeyJade wrote:
Again sit the girl downa nd tell her your feelings if you keep hiding them... then HEll U gonna be constipated.... but if u express them u should feel better
Damn all that "feelin' better" stuff. I wont feel better if I just tell her. I already told her to a certain extent, but she wont have 100% understanding of how I feel unless I pour it all on her at one time....and I dont wanna really do that right now, becuz im scared it's gonna **** off any slim chances we already have. She's known about every relationship, fucc buddy, 1-nite-stands, and near-inpregnations that I've ever had, and vice versa. Whenever I end up dating some other girl, I ALWAYS detect jealousy (bad mouthing the girl before she even meets her...etc)...Perfect example: she tried to downplay how serious me and my ex were getting when we were together. This leads me to believe that she doesn't want anybody else to have me, but I think she's afraid to get with me becuz I'm Joe Regular....nothing too flashy or fancy, and that'll have other folks talking about "why is she with HIM?" KEEP HOPE ALIVE!
ShadeyJade · May 2005
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Da_Rodfather wrote:
Ok I really like this girl but I dont know exactly how she feels about me. How can I find out without bein obvious?
BE REAL ABOUT YOURSELF AND THE SITUATION if u want to know something BE REAL ask her point blank what do u think and how do u feel about me... I do it all the time
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ShadeyJade · May 2005
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The Kool Juice wrote:
ShadeyJade wrote:
Again sit the girl downa nd tell her your feelings if you keep hiding them... then HEll U gonna be constipated.... but if u express them u should feel better
Damn all that "feelin' better" stuff. I wont feel better if I just tell her. I already told her to a certain extent, but she wont have 100% understanding of how I feel unless I pour it all on her at one time....and I dont wanna really do that right now, becuz im scared it's gonna **** off any slim chances we already have. She's known about every relationship, fucc buddy, 1-nite-stands, and near-inpregnations that I've ever had, and vice versa. Whenever I end up dating some other girl, I ALWAYS detect jealousy (bad mouthing the girl before she even meets her...etc)...Perfect example: she tried to downplay how serious me and my ex were getting when we were together. This leads me to believe that she doesn't want anybody else to have me, but I think she's afraid to get with me becuz I'm Joe Regular....nothing too flashy or fancy, and that'll have other folks talking about "why is she with HIM?" KEEP HOPE ALIVE!
Now correct me if im wrong or not but WHO ELSE MATTERS.... its byou and her int he relationship NOT EVERYONE ELSE>> so bump what they say.... u cant allow friends and people to determine the outcome of your relationship KEY WORD YOUR........ bump flashyness thats sugarcoatin yourself.... most importantly dont doubt yourself...... doubters get no where in life
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· May 2005
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ShadeyJade wrote:
The Kool Juice wrote:
ShadeyJade wrote:
Again sit the girl downa nd tell her your feelings if you keep hiding them... then HEll U gonna be constipated.... but if u express them u should feel better
Damn all that "feelin' better" stuff. I wont feel better if I just tell her. I already told her to a certain extent, but she wont have 100% understanding of how I feel unless I pour it all on her at one time....and I dont wanna really do that right now, becuz im scared it's gonna **** off any slim chances we already have. She's known about every relationship, fucc buddy, 1-nite-stands, and near-inpregnations that I've ever had, and vice versa. Whenever I end up dating some other girl, I ALWAYS detect jealousy (bad mouthing the girl before she even meets her...etc)...Perfect example: she tried to downplay how serious me and my ex were getting when we were together. This leads me to believe that she doesn't want anybody else to have me, but I think she's afraid to get with me becuz I'm Joe Regular....nothing too flashy or fancy, and that'll have other folks talking about "why is she with HIM?" KEEP HOPE ALIVE!
Now correct me if im wrong or not but WHO ELSE MATTERS.... its byou and her int he relationship NOT EVERYONE ELSE>> so bump what they say.... u cant allow friends and people to determine the outcome of your relationship KEY WORD YOUR........ bump flashyness thats sugarcoatin yourself.... most importantly dont doubt yourself...... doubters get no where in life
See, she wont listen to me. I tried to tell her that them curly-head light skinned pretty boys aint shyt....but she wont listen to me. She wont admit it, but the only reason why she wont change who she gets involved with is because she's afraid of others opinion. Plus, them curly-head Al B. Sure lookin' niggraz scared to get dirty!
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ShadeyJade · May 2005
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They think they are J.A.P.A.N Shoot I'll listen to u........
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~ADANNA~ · May 2005
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do you think piercings (includong ones in the ear) contradict Christian principles?
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ShadeyJade · May 2005
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Yeah however I have two in each ear.... and Im about to do a third sinc ei learned how to pierce them myself
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ShadeyJade · May 2005
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BACK IN BUSINESS
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