Being honest....who's fault is it that you are single?
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Started by R-Tistic
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Aug 2005
R-Tistic
Los Angeles, CA
I know that we have all heard females everywhere complain, or "give reasons" for the fact that they are single. The common theme that I find, especially in college, is that most of the females who have excuses/reasons for being single usually blame the men that they have met and have been surrounded by for the fact that they are single. Most of them will never admit their downfalls, and always have a reason for anything somebody may use to knock them.
So my question to you all...could you honestly admit that there may be some reasons to why you are single? Whether it's your personality, looks, or anything else you feel could be wrong with you, but WITHOUT flippin the script. Meaning..."I admit it's because I'm usually not in a good mood....but I'm only like that because the dudes make me mad all the time" is not a valid reason.
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I'm single because I want to be. I don't want to be in a relationship at this point in my life.
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I'm single but i'm not anyway I just don't have the time to devote to a relationship like i'd want to. Plus I dunno I like my space.
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These are some straight up honest answers, and i commend ya'll. I'm actually feeling som of ya'll right now wit the choosing to be single part. I think serious relationships at this point in our lives is a lil over rated, and not really necessary unless you plan on getting married to that person. Just develop that friendship first.
TJC wrote:i'm unattractive to men. you have to be **** to get their attention. oh and you have to be real thick too. or they won't like you. that honest enough for ya?


. I feel at this point of our lives we can think that we will have a seriousrelationship especially in high school and the start of college. I know for a fact that I am a flirt, enjoy the company of guys and I have serious friendships that I know will last longer that a boyfriend will. I look forward to having a deep relationship but that will happen years from now when im looking for a husband. Until then... friends with benefits is my policy aka the "no strings attached regimen" which is my thing. I LOVE THE FREEDOM!! :-D