I have a Question for the Ladies
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Started by Change
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Sep 2005
Change
boston, MA
if you're out and about and you see a gentleman you like
would you go up to him and start talkin to him?
or are you the type to let the men come up to you?
#11
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Hmm...good question. In most cases the guy im attracted to is attracted to me too...for instance in a club, so i may give him the eye that says its ok to come talk..we dance...exchange numbers. If im just out at the mall or something...i'll definitely go talk to a guy...or be really ignorant and walk by and say something like "you're a cutie."...that'll usually get his attention...
da most i'll do is set the bait, u know start a conversation and flirt, its all up to the guy from there...
#13
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It depends on how good they look. I might depending on how bold i'm feeling that day
#14
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I honestly have to say that I wouldn't approach a guy whether I liked him or not. I've been raised to believe that a man is supposed to approach you. And as much as I hate to admit it, I am afraid of rejection. So I'd have to say no.
#15
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It depends on the location...in most places for some **** reason the club parkin lot is bananas...So usually if I am tipsy in some kinda form...it doesnt really matter. It doesnt bother me because I'm confident on even my worse days...the worst that could happen is that he says no and even if he does...there are millions more in the world...
#16
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THIS CONVO IS A STEM TO ANOTHER BIGGER ISSUE. IF LADIES FEEL
IT'S A MAN JOB THEN WHY THEY GET MAD WHEN SOMEONE COMES OFF
AS A **** THEN BRAND ALL MEN AS THE SAME? HOW YOU KNOW YOU
LIKE THEM? ATTRACTED TO/INFATUATED WITH THEM IS MORE
ACCURATE AND BASE PURELY ON WHAT IS SEEN AND NOT BY WHAT
YOU FEEL OR KNOW. B/C OF THIS, I TAKE NO ACTION UNLESS SOME IS
TAKEN TOWARDS ME.
#17
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REALMANISME wrote:THIS CONVO IS A STEM TO ANOTHER BIGGER ISSUE. IF LADIES FEEL IT'S A MAN JOB THEN WHY THEY GET MAD WHEN SOMEONE COMES OFF AS A **** THEN BRAND ALL MEN AS THE SAME? HOW YOU KNOW YOU LIKE THEM? ATTRACTED TO/INFATUATED WITH THEM IS MORE ACCURATE AND BASE PURELY ON WHAT IS SEEN AND NOT BY WHAT YOU FEEL OR KNOW. B/C OF THIS, I TAKE NO ACTION UNLESS SOME IS TAKEN TOWARDS ME.
