Now of days its seems to be more and more females are going after just money. I understand people want the best,but I am wondering why it seems like a straight obsession for some females. I have never dealt with it first hand,but have watched friends have those problems with females and at one point I thought it was just a sterotype until I heard alot of their stories and it wasn't just the girls they dealt with,but some of my female friends are like that. WHY? It kind of brings up trust issuses like whether or not the female will be down with you during the down times. And, it causes me not to holla at certain females and then I get labeled as being stuck up!!! thats not the truth.
You're right.
Here's a different question. If a guy chooses to date a girl because of what she has..what is he? Not like that would likely happen <_< . Lol.
i think the most important point that's been made is that for some folks, female or otherwise, the opportunity to have someone do things for you is one that not many can pass up. the human subconscious is the most powerful thing on the planet and once it's trained to want a certain thing it's hard to get out of that.
I'm not like that either. I dated one guy who had money...but I didnt know he had money all like that til later on... and when things got ****, his money didnt mean ANYTHING!!!!! I still left him because he hurt me and he was a ****...but when it's serious dating and we're talkin about marriage...I'ma need for him to either be comfortable wit me makin more money than him...or for him to have some plans to make money himself...cause either way we're gonna live comfortably...but casual dating...just as long as we dont go to McDonalds for dates all tha time lol.
Well...I'm a high maintenance lady BUT I take care of myself. Maybe I'm confused is high maintenance when a girl expects a guy to buy all her crap or just a lady who keeps nice clothes, car, hair done...etc. I'm the second one. I know a lot of females who have very high standards and if you don't meet those....you can't date her. I was raised to take care of myself so I feel awkward when a guy pampers me....BUT i appreciate him for it. And I pamper my guy....take him out, buy him clothes. If it's a balance then that's ok right??
Okay Im super spoiled!! so I'm used to getting everything I want whether its given to me or I go out and get it myself. I always get what I want. I get told I'm high maintenace for sure...... But i get my own and if Im given thats cool but I like the best I am the best and I feel I should and I will get the best. Thats just how it always has been with me if I want something 1012 % of the time I get it. I expect the best and nothing less no one is better than the next but I refuse to settle for less when I can have the best.......I think thats anyone who loves and cares about themself enought to know that they deserve the best u were designed for the great why not have it lol
Some guys claim they don't date or even like high maintenace girls..... why? if u both treat each other right it shouldnt matter.
Well yeah Im used to living a wonderful life but that doesnt mean if that guy cant get it for me then he's not good enough.......some guys
BEND OVER BACKWARDS TRYING TO PLEASE FEMALES
GIVE THEM WHAT THEY ARE CUSTOM TO HAVING
IM LIKE THIS DONT FAKE THE FUNK IF U GOT IT THATS COOL BUT IF U DONT......DONT ACT LIKE U DO
TRUE IM SPOILED ROTTEN AND ANYTHING I WANT AND NEED I KNOW I CAN GET FROM MY PARENTS GRANDPARENTS, OLDER SIBLINGS, UNCLES, ETC
I WAS RAISED THAT WAY BEING SPOILED EVRYTHING MY WAY......BUT I ALSO KNOW THAT I HAVE TO BE INDEPENDENT AND CANT EXPECT A MAN OR ANYONE TO GIVE ME WHAT I WANT CUS THERE NOT ALWAYS GOING TO BE THERE........So I take whats given I refuse to ask a man for anything if its not life threatening I get what I want reguardless. I get the best because to me I am one of the best!
I am not going to lie, I am high maintenance. I like nice things, but I don't need a man to get those things for me I can get them for myself. I want a man not for material things, but for the things that won't fade a way like love and respect. I don't want a guy with no dreams or ambitions, because I deserve better. You know sometimes girls be like he can live in a shack, and i'd love him, but lets be honest financial problems is a big reason why lots of people get divorced amongst many others. I plan on being successful myself, so if my man is going through a rough time he can depend on me. My parents gave me the best, so I expect the best, and I believe I deserve the best. I am not stuck-up I am just confident and know exactly what I want. And their are plenty of men that are gold diggers out there. They don't have no car, no job, and no future.
Now of days its seems to be more and more females are going after just money. I understand people want the best,but I am wondering why it seems like a straight obsession for some females. I have never dealt with it first hand,but have watched friends have those problems with females and at one point I thought it was just a sterotype until I heard alot of their stories and it wasn't just the girls they dealt with,but some of my female friends are like that. WHY? It kind of brings up trust issuses like whether or not the female will be down with you during the down times. And, it causes me not to holla at certain females and then I get labeled as being stuck up!!! thats not the truth.
I feel where you coming from but I firmly believe that the only things that happen to you is what you allow to happen to you! So, if you make yourself a target, flashing your bread...whatever...it's bound to happen. The smart guys know how to invest their money so that while they whipping something modest now and not attracting those kind of females...later on they reap the benefits of not flaunting their bread and perhaps get a down chick to enjoy it with later...
Me, I let females know off top that I believe in a 50/50 relationship...So, I have not had to deal with that problem
