Why is it so hard for guys to open up to they girl?
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Started by Ieschia
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Jul 2003
Well ma I can only speak for me and maybe those that'll relate to my comments, I dont have a problem opening up to my woman, cause I'm an open person and I'm very expressive when it comes to my feelings, BUT with that said I'm more cautious now than I was before based on the fact I've been that open and have gotten hurt numerous times for that reason. Men dont really open up because they wanna seem weak or by society's standards as not as manly cause they open up. I dont care about all that I open up to people I have a comfort level with. Another thing, if he not opening up to YOU, maybe it's cause you're not his main girl
I would rather have a guy who just doesn't say what he feels, because, in reality, I just could give a damn...
I don't talk about crap to a dude, and he doesn't talk about crap to me...I'd rather just sit there, crack jokes to each other, share 3 bags of Doritos, and not "share feelings"...
some people just don't prefer the mush...
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I think guys like to play games. They say us women talk to much but we keep it real. If we got mad that Lisa looked at you too long we gonna say something about it. Men just sit back and compound thier feelings.
Do you ever wonder why there is more males in jail then females ????
Honestly it's hard for guys to open up to girls because one they feel vulnerable telling our feelings and two some girls play some serious games with guys.
I know I don't want to put myself out there and get rejected everytime I do. I know a lot of guys will agree with me when I say we rather wait until we know the girl likes us before we open up to them, but that can be hard to tell. 
Some of the girls I've dealt with will flirt with you constantly as if they like you, but in reality they are just playing games. The girl that said guys play games got it all wrong. Guys will be straight up with their feelings if they think it's the right time and right girl. But because a lot of girls play games so much I don't know what the right time is or if a girl really likes me or if she's just leading me on. :cry:
Some of the girls I've dealt with will flirt with you constantly as if they like you, but in reality they are just playing games. The girl that said guys play games got it all wrong. Guys will be straight up with their feelings if they think it's the right time and right girl. But because a lot of girls play games so much I don't know what the right time is or if a girl really likes me or if she's just leading me on. :cry:
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My man opens up at the right moments I don't need to hear it all the time but somehow he knows the right time. Only thing is he doesn't have a problem saying it his problem is showing it. He shows affection don't get me wrong but I mean like little things you know flowers or a flower, I am the one who does the showing and less telling. To me its harder to tell him in his face. But I'll leave little love notes/poems. Just to make him smile.
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Yeah I feel you...since I'm doing the long distance thing...I'll be quick to leave a "I Miss You" on the voice mail but can't do it while he's on the phone. Or when he is around...I can just look at him with so much stuff flowing through my mind...but I can't say it. He's very affectionate..but I think he could open up a little more...but again our relationship is fairly new. I don't think he will ever be the type to front in front of his boys because he doesn't really care about what others think...but as far as flowers and those little mushy gifts that ladies love...yeah he could use some help in that department.
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soewhat wrote:I would rather have a guy who just doesn't say what he feels, because, in reality, I just could give a damn... I don't talk about crap to a dude, and he doesn't talk about crap to me...I'd rather just sit there, crack jokes to each other, share 3 bags of Doritos, and not "share feelings"... some people just don't prefer the mush...
