When dudes try to dance with you at the club...

20 replies · 7530 views · Started by R-Tistic · Apr 2006
R-Tistic Los Angeles, CA
What are we supposed to do, in your opinion? I am just curious because I've heard a large variety of responses from different females. In general, most girls seem to just dance when you "jump" behind, and most of them usually look back to see who they are dancin with and they will continue depending on how you look (I would assume) or if they know you. However, I have heard some females complain about that technique, and they get mad when dudes do that. Some of em will say that they'd prefer the dude to ask her first. It's nothin serious at all...just somethin I have been wonderin about.
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PoochieT · Apr 2006
#11 Reply
Poody wrote:
It depends on my mood. If I'm jazzy or I'm posted up not really dancing then ask me to dance. If I'm jazzy on the dance floor or just all normal and Sh*t dancing, lol......i'll let you take my hand If I'm on the dance floor tearing dat Sh*t up you better just jump behind cuz I probably wont hear you ask me to dance and I'll be too crunk to give a fukk. Of course I'ma still look back and see what you look like, thats with anything.
Same here girl, same here... :-D
Poody · Apr 2006
#12 Reply
lol, and thats on some real sh!t
Pwr2AllPeople · Apr 2006
#13 Reply
the guys in tallahassee dont even ask me...they jus come behind me depending on how im dress and/or dancing.
· Apr 2006
#14 Reply
It is funny as hell to see **** get rejected by a chick though...especially the self-proclaimed "pretty boys"...
tdx5000 · Apr 2006
#15 Reply
well, i jus walk up on em and grab they hand......but one thing you never do is stand behind or close to a girl for hella years because she know you wanna dance and you jus look lame.....so if i dont dance when i make eye contact, i jus keep it pushin....and dont always go for the finest ones....i mean dont not go for em, but i look for the ones that can dance...and jus cus the fine dont mean they can dance...trust me. 8)
giniacuty_757 · Apr 2006
#16 Reply
EACH GIRL IS DIFFERENT SOME LIKE IT WHEN GUYS JUMP BEHIND OTHERS LIKE TO BE ASKED BUT I KNOW I CAN SPEAK FOR MOST GIRLS WHEN I SAY WE WANT YOU TO DANCE! THATS WHAT THE DANCE FLOOR IS FOR IM Like NAsty NAs on illmatic track 9 i represent represent Va all day!
· Apr 2006
#17 Reply
I dont mind if dude just jump behind me, especially if im in the mood to shake my @$$. But if he aint lookin right, my girls give me the signal and pull me away as if they are urgently tryin to talk to me..lol. Other times i would like for a dude to grab only my hand cuz i hate when a dude grabs my @ss and expects me to dance with him. No No, its not that kind of party...
AfroPoeticSista · Apr 2006
#18 Reply
grab my hand or speak first. me and my girls always dance with guys while we are facing each other , so if a guy jumps behind andain't lookin too right she'll make a face. i'd appreciate the effort to catch my attention with eye contact before you grab my hips or something. and i HATE when guys who don't know how to dance just do that grinding stuff. learn how to dance!
Deuce_214 · Mar 2009
#19 Reply
to bring one back from the graveyard
· Mar 2009
#20 Reply
*yo, this thread is dumb old* if you wanna dance with me, ask. PLEASE. For your own safety, just ask. I'm a city slicker, and that random type ish where come up behind somebody and start dancing around is a one-way ticket to a beatdown.
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