Help!

graytgurl wrote:

**I am not greek** If you feel your personality doesn't fit with any sorority then maybe greek life isn't for you...don't force it cuz itll be fake and itll show...also your personality doesn't have to fit exactly...these organizations have thousands of women in them...we all know black women don't get along that well but these women are united based on common beliefs on which their organization was founded. If you can identify with the beliefs of one particular org and feel you're "down for the cause" and lifetime commitment then go with that. Its a very serious matter and not to be taken lightly, which is why I understand ur dilemma. You will always hear the phrase "do your research" and after that you should be able to figure out which org fits you best.Don't JUST look at the girls on ur campus, the history of these organizations are very strong by themselves. Don't come on message boards shouting out which orgs you are interested in because the net is full of info and black greek life is a small world and news travels fast. You will not be taken seriously. Ive seen ppl get shot down plenty of times online and in person. Keep ur interest to urself and only that particular org should know ur interest in them. (Maybe other interests with whom ur cool and know will keep their mouth shut) research and discretion never meant so much as it does with bglos