The Real Reason Youre Single/With That (Nucca/Guh)

39 replies · 9266 views · Started by Wisdom_Tree · Jun 2004
Wisdom_Tree Texas City, TX
Yes, aren't you people having fun answering my questions? No? Heres anova'!! Why do you think you are where you are right now in terms of having a man/woman? I mean, do you think that life would be different if you had/didnt have that significant other? Do you think youre single because you choose to be or is it the fault of the Genders (male or female)? Whats the breaking point in which you just give up on ya boo or when you go all out and get one?
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BrownSugar · Jun 2004
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I am single right now becuase I really need to be. I am working on a few things in my life so I need to be alone at this point. This is fairly recent since I just broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2yrs back in March (We got back together once between then and now, but only briefly because he and I just aren't working). I am not, nor will I be even REMOTELY interested in pursuing another relationship for a very long time. I just want to be single for a while. Sometimes you can really loose yourself when you jump from relationship to relationship. So I am taking a much needed break from the girlfriend role. At this point, I have NO PROBLEM holding out for the right guy . . . however long that takes.
ThatClassyGirl216 · Jun 2004
#22 Reply
I am talking to a couple of guys but that's it. One is a sweetheart and is a very good friend, the other one I want to get to know. I am single because there are a few things I need to figure out (like where I'm going to college) and decide what I really want before I get into another relationship...I always go for the guys I know aren't right for me, so I am trying to get myself together so I won't do that in tha future. Fortunately my "very good friend" is very patient and we are waiting to see if it is really meant to be (again)
· Jun 2004
#23 Reply
I'm single right now because I want to be. I'm an independent woman. plus I can't handle all the comitment.
In Rod We Trust · Jun 2004
#24 Reply
P o e t i q R e i g n wrote:
oh yea...& tha reason i'm single...is 'cause...well i guess as long as i'm waitin' around for tha people I want (instead of jus tha people who want me), i'm gonna be single 4 a min.... i can't jus be in a relationship with someone i'm not feelin...been there, done that....gotta...wanna be with someone i actually have chemistry with and feelings for.... :? 'till then...ya girl'z gonna continue rollin solo....
I think me and u are on the same page :lol: Why do you think you are where you are right now in terms of having a man/woman? - I think because Im TOO picky. I enjoy the whole "chase" part of the guy trying to get w/me. Im too excited by meeting someone new that i don't really stick around 2 get to know them.... :roll: I mean, do you think that life would be different if you had/didnt have that significant other? - Yes, I think i would be more compassionate. I have a lot of heart. Just don't like to let everybody know that. Do you think youre single because you choose to be or is it the fault of the Genders (male or female)? - My being single is my own fault i guess...I havent met that guy who keeps me wanting 2 come back for more. All the guys I meet end up being just like eachother somehow. Whats the breaking point in which you just give up on ya boo or when you go all out and get one?- Uhh I meet new guys everyday. Talk 2 em...whatever. When I get 1 who's for me i'll know it.....but guys try 2 hard. Lol I was watching Love Don't Cost A Thang tha other day n Christina Milian was like " Girls Like Guys Who Act Like They Don't Need Them"....thats exactly what I need and havent met yet :roll:
La · Jun 2004
#25 Reply
Im single because I havent found the right person. There is someone I could be dating right now, but I dont wanna be with him for a plethora of reasons. I would love to have a boyfriend, but Im not gonna be with just anybody, so beause of that I have to be patient and wait for Mr. Right to come along. As much as I would love to have a boyfriend, I am ok being single at the moment. I have wonderful friends who I love ( male and female ) and appreciate...so...its not the worse thing in the world. And besides, I see a guy as my future an inthe near future. Im counting down my days to August...lol But as soon as I get me a man, yall will be the first ones to know. lol, :wink:
Afro-American · Jun 2004
#26 Reply
lol at these long "dr phil responses".. im single cause "im very very picky" *thankyou*
Kismet_TNT · Jun 2004
#27 Reply
Truthfully I'm with my boyfriend out of piy for him...because I know that he really has nobody that supports him like I do and at one time I was infactuated with him...but that died down. Now it's irrating because I want to break up with him, but I'm too soft hearted. I be like its over then he gets in his feelings and be like but I love you so much and blah blah blah and I be like okay, but we have to work on our relationship. I guess I don't like him as much because I can TOTALLY control him. But I guess that's whay I have another boyfriend who I kinda adore. :twisted:
Wisdom_Tree · Jun 2004
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Skegee_Lady wrote:
Truthfully I'm with my boyfriend out of piy for him...because I know that he really has nobody that supports him like I do and at one time I was infactuated with him...but that died down. Now it's irrating because I want to break up with him, but I'm too soft hearted. I be like its over then he gets in his feelings and be like but I love you so much and blah blah blah and I be like okay, but we have to work on our relationship. I guess I don't like him as much because I can TOTALLY control him. But I guess that's whay I have another boyfriend who I kinda adore. :twisted:
(Note to self: Do not go near Skegee_Lady; DANGEROUS! :arrow: )
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Jamaican_Cleo · Jun 2004
#29 Reply
im single because girls are too lets see stuck on themselves not all girls but most of em is they gotz to be right all the time
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· Jun 2004
#30 Reply
I dont even know what category i am in right now.....
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