Do you believe in love @ 1st convo
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Started by MrG4
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Jun 2004
I was just thinking about something and wanted to know did any like i did in love @ first convo.
Have you ever talked 2 a person for the 1st time for hours on top of hours and at the end you felt something for that person.
I have and i believe in that
Because you cant tell your heart to think
Your heart is gonna do it's on thing no matter what your mind say
So am i the only one that believes in love @ first convo
See at 1st is like lust to me but convo is something different
So what u think
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I don't believe that you can fall in love after one convo (wtf)....I mean, I believe when you first meet most people, you are actually meeting their "representative"...The person they want you to believe they are to lure you in...To attract you...So, I am always weary on the first few convos until I believe that I have seen all the person's emotions and know their mentality....So, hell no to that buddy...How u can love someone if u can't love ***in Chris Rock's words*** "the crust of a muthafuucka"?
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nah...i think love is something more deeply rooted than what can happen in one conversation. Infatuation and pure lust are most likely what you would experience. Yes you may feel as if you are in love, but how can you love someone you dont know. One conversation can't depict that person's charecter no matter how long you talk to them, or how deeply connected you feel to them. True I cant speak for the masses, but i can speak for logic and love at first sight is something that has to be nurtured (sp?) and developed over time, not something just sprung from a nutshell. Now I think the chance of love is something that can be seen at first sight, or first convo in that case. << shrugz >> Just some of my thoughts.....
ShellinPinK wrote:HmMmMmm n0pe becauSe peoPle arent alwaisS as theY seEm unfOrtunately =/
but back to the topic....
The reason a lot of people dont know what "love" is, is because love is relative, the question he asked I understand, it is something that he has experienced, maybe some of you have not experienced the same thing, so you automatically label it as ignorant. This is like coming up with a heliocentric view of the universe and all of you shutting him down because ptolemy is the standard, however, after certain experiences you may come to realize what he is talking about.
Before you can say it is impossible, you first need a clear definition of what "love" is, if you do not have a clear cut definition that can be agreed upon by all, then it is possible by default.
