Marriage...Yes or No

MiSs J FaMu wrote:

I completely disagree with you. First I was raised that you dont live with someone unless yall are married. Personally, I just think that having a live in boyfriend and some kids isnt the most respectable thing and what kind of example is that for your kids. But thats just how I feel. And you say its a waste of money to get married but you can easily go to Justice of the Peace and and get married at court and that costs like nothing. I would know cause my parents did it. My mom didnt wanna waste her money on a wedding which is fine, but she wasnt gonna live with no man and he not be her husband. I want a husband and then a child....I dont want no live in boyfriend and he be my babby daddy....HELL NO. I personnally want a huge wedding cause thats just my own personal preference, but I undersatnd that some people feel its not worth the money which is cool. But I just think its a cop out to say that you dont wanna get married cause of the cost when u can easily get it done for free at the Court. If you just want a live in boyfriend then say that, but to say cause it costs too much is just Bullsh*t to me.

QUA wrote:

Marriage??...it's like I would like to get married then again I'm like hell na. After like 10 years of wedlock I'mma get tired of her ****. And females nag too much for me. I can't stand when my momma is naggin to me so I know I couldn't stand my wife's naggin. But then I get second thoughts like yea I'll get married. I might get tired of f*ckin hoes and want somethin that's real.

Still Slim wrote:

Q-Britt wrote:

I think is beautiful when its real, when two people are really in love and can overcome their problems, and stay together until death does them apart. On the other hand, marraige doesn't always work out like that. If I do get married I wanna be in love forever like people grandparents are, and still love my husband. But eveything happens for a reason, so if it don't work, it don't. Some people try, or stay in it for the kids. Thats just me, but I don't know if I really want to get married!?!?!? The two generations above me in my family marriages didn't work, I don't wanna be like them.

COSIGNS 8) :arrow:

MiSs J FaMu wrote:

MiSs J FaMu wrote:

I completely disagree with you. First I was raised that you dont live with someone unless yall are married. Personally, I just think that having a live in boyfriend and some kids isnt the most respectable thing and what kind of example is that for your kids. But thats just how I feel. And you say its a waste of money to get married but you can easily go to Justice of the Peace and and get married at court and that costs like nothing. I would know cause my parents did it. My mom didnt wanna waste her money on a wedding which is fine, but she wasnt gonna live with no man and he not be her husband. I want a husband and then a child....I dont want no live in boyfriend and he be my babby daddy....HELL NO. I personnally want a huge wedding cause thats just my own personal preference, but I undersatnd that some people feel its not worth the money which is cool. But I just think its a cop out to say that you dont wanna get married cause of the cost when u can easily get it done for free at the Court. If you just want a live in boyfriend then say that, but to say cause it costs too much is just Bullsh*t to me.

[quote = CaliPrincess]^^^^^^^^^^Girl, I couldn't have said it better myself. Shackin' up is wrong and there is no TRUE commitment in that situation, cuz' someone could easily say, "We're not Married," "You're not my husband/wife." Also, what kind of example would that be??? Not a good one, I'll say that much.........

Still Slim wrote:

Q-Britt wrote:

I think is beautiful when its real, when two people are really in love and can overcome their problems, and stay together until death does them apart. On the other hand, marraige doesn't always work out like that. If I do get married I wanna be in love forever like people grandparents are, and still love my husband. But eveything happens for a reason, so if it don't work, it don't. Some people try, or stay in it for the kids. Thats just me, but I don't know if I really want to get married!?!?!? The two generations above me in my family marriages didn't work, I don't wanna be like them.

COSIGNS 8) :arrow: