So what if I'm a legacy??? I have a right!!!!!

Trauma_Unit14 · Aug 2004

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OoHDatDude wrote:
19OesAggie20 wrote:
Trauma_Unit14 wrote:
That is truly f'ed up. If I ever have a daughter and she wants to pledge something besides Delta, that's her choice. Granted, I won't pay her fees or even help her pay for it. But I wouldn't treat her like crap. She'd have a godmother who's a Zeta, some cousins and play aunts who are AKAs, and a play aunt that is S G Rho, so one of them can pay for it. lol. I'm only paying for DST.
Looking at this....is this not a milder form of the same thing. Ur saying out right... if my child goes anything other than DST i'm not paying for it. I could understand uf u said "if she wants it...WHATEVER it is... she has to pay for it. But u said anything BUT DST. Thats the same thing as dude's dad is doing to him in my eyes.

Nah...two different things. I wouldn't pay for my son pledging anything other than Omega...however, he would not be disowned. Why fund something that you have no part of or want any part of? Doesn't make sense to me. He'll get my support in other ways but not financial, as far as pledging goes. I'll pay off tuition, the whole nine but I'm not writing a single check to Alpha, Kappa or whoever my son wants to get down with.

Crimson Coated CaraMEL from Pine Bluff, AR · Sep 2004

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Dang right soror, its only one thing i will pay for. Both of my sisters want to pledge AKA. But if you know the 19 year old she is not the one to even pledge anything. And the 14 year old dont know nothin about nothin. I think they want to do just to go against my mother grain, but she told them it dont even matter. Do what you do but i aint paying for it. Get ya cousins to support ya. I still love ya though.

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· Oct 2004

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I think that as family you should support whatever your child decides, financially and emotionally. I agree with my soror on if it's not in your heart you really should not choose that org just because it's in the family. That is how so many organizations end up with T-shirt wearers instead of those working for the cause.

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· Oct 2004

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That is awful. How could you let your letters separate you and your child?

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