What should a sista DO!?!?!?!?
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Started by justiFIYAHble
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Jul 2004
Try to work it out.. well.. actually, ask him point blank if he has someone in mind... I would take the break.. I mean.. If you let it go and it comes back to you, ITS YOURS..... If y'all don't get back together, then he wasn't the one for you.... check the siggy
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To be honest, the long distance thing is hard. Morgan is 7 hours from North Carolina and believe me I tried to do the long distance thing. It can happen as long as both parties r clear on what they want and they stay focused. Personally it sounds like he wants a break...i mean there are plenty of dudes in college, just do u and be happy.
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**MissC is 20** wrote:He might want to just take a break because he doesn't want to cheat on you or vice versa. I mean there may not be anyone he's with at the present...but just in case he slips somewhere down the line there wouldn't be a relationship in jeopardy because of that. <---that could also how he feels if you slip up. I have a long distance relationship...8 hours from home; 10.5 hours at school. The relationship takes a lot of maturity, a lot of communication, and alot of perserverance. The only reason why I chose to get involved with it is because I feel that down the line something beneficial would come from it. If I had the SLIGHTEST doubt I would have backed out a long time ago. I know that if it doesn't work out...our FRIENDSHIP won't be jeopardized. Boundaries have to be set. And sometimes you have to be a little lenient with it...I mean we're talking about 3-4 years where you're away from each other the majority of the time. You just have to be true to yourself. And know your personal limitations. If you're one that needs to cuddle every other day...then a long distance relationship is not for you. You're setting yourself up for failure off the back.
