For the ladies: top things ya'll look for in a man?

this ought to be interesting...*bookmarks thread*

Likes: :arrow: A sense of humor. I'm crazy as hell, so I need someone who can appreciate that and laugh with me when I'm acting a fool. :arrow: Respectful. Especially to women, to elders, of other people's opinions, and always, always to his mama. :arrow: Intelligent. We have to talk sometimes. I at least want it to be interesting. :arrow: Interesting. I don't want anyone who fits a certain mold. He has to keep me guessing. :arrow: Mature. I'm a grown **** woman. At least as grown as I can be at 18. Point is, I need a grown as man, not a lil' boy. :arrow: Loving. Who doesn't want someone that adores them and isn't afraid to let them know it? But not to the point of being clingy. :arrow: Not one of those "wannabe be **** white tee and bandana wearin' I think I'm so hard that I can't even look at a book or a school building and my whole ambition in life is to cut a record and become an underground legend in the ATL" kinda "men" that you so often find in the south. :arrow: Individual. I don't want someone that follows that crowd. :arrow: Likes to have fun. I love to dance and party and drink so it would be nice if he liked to dance and party and drink with me. :arrow: Anyone who is just like my BABY!!!!! Dislikes: :arrow: Smoking anything other than a Black N Mild. :arrow: Disrespectful. :arrow: No ambition. :arrow: Immature. :arrow: The "playa" type. :arrow: A closed mind.