To All tHe FeLLaS

36 replies · 19007 views · Started by 2damnREAL · Aug 2004

2damnREAL

This is to my REAL MEN If/when you become fathers PLEASE take care of your kids..Even if you slip up and have a kid with your girlfriend and she becomes your baby momma,and then ya cant stand her! (sorry) Take care of your lil ones...ESPECIALLY those who grew up without a father. You would understand the pain of having a DEADBEAT DADDY who doesnt care for you,tells you he's gonna take you here and there and never shows up...I'VE been there and still am there! my father does more for my brothers and ignores moi..... And I see history repeats itself...My babydaddy doesnt care for HIS daughter and I dont want her growing up with hate for the dumb **** but ya know... So anyway, that's all i got to say...DONT EVER SAY I AINT TELL YALL NOTHING :wink: :lol:

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· Aug 2006

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I did a blog on this recently. My **** donor and I have not spoken since 2000. I have tried to establish a relationship with him but he never had the interest or the time. Oh well, he won't have a good relationship with his grand daughters either. I, on the other hand went the opposite direction of my father. I helped with homework, went to parks played videogames and taught my daughters how to fight. (to protect themselves) It pains me that their mother and I had to divorce and my military obligations have me all over the world, but to them, I am always daddy and I will always protect, guide and take care of them (financially and otherwise). Even from a distance.

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Mrs. Obannon from Oakland, CA · Aug 2006

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^^ I give u mad props.

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· Aug 2006

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Mrs. Obannon wrote:
^^ I give u mad props.

Thanks, I really shouldn't get props because operating as I do "should" be automatic for every parent.

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Renegade11 from cincinnati, OH · Jan 2007

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I feel ya on that sista.. there are too many lil bad kids walking around with no respect for anyone. There are kids out there who needs a male role model in there life forreal. I grew up without my father but thank the Lord that he blessed me with a great mother. Fellas if yall slip up DO NOT run from yall problem. Be a man and take care of ur responsibilities... Great Post

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Sister Tamara from Davenport, IA · Jul 2007

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PRAISE THE LORD!!! I have read all of the comments and I agree with everybody. That's why I'm a firm believer of abstinance until marriage. This will solve a lot of the problems. Now keep in mind that marriage alone wont keep the father or mother obligated to their responsibilities, that's why I also promote Holiness. If a Holy man of God marries a Holy woman of God, than the love they have for God will be evident to each other and will be easily passed on to their children. This way you wont have to worry about children not getting all of their needs tooken care of. God loves for things to be done decently and in order, and the order of having children is "ABSTINANCE UNTIL MARRIAGE!!!

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smc112 from Laguana Hills, CA · Sep 2007

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G.O.M.A.B. wrote:
Guys always go around humpin anything that walks unprotected and they get mad when they have a baby or get an STD. That is why I always tell my brother to be careful where he 'sticks his stick'. He is a male **** and it worries me what kind of diseases he could have. I dont even sit on the same toilet as him anymore. Its crazy...........

How about telling him he needs to live for Jesus and quit fornicating before marriage. That will save him from a lot of trouble.