when did you realize you were a grown **** woman??

demmeri wrote:

MsThang wrote:

Emotions have very little to do with maturity and a female can have a strong spiritual background at the age of 17 but be immature in every other area. Women do not have immature emotions, to suggest that you would have to trace that to a physiological basis, and look at the brain and gender differnces and the truth is that males and females are not very different in any physiological sense, the differences all come from experiences, so you can not generalize a group of people who do not share the same experiences. It's funny how males comment of women's emotions and how some may display too many emotions in life as if its a weakness, yet if you were to come across a woman who was the opposite and showed very little emotion, and cared very little for how her behavior effects others, people would probably think she is a cold-hearted person and wouldn't want to be around her much. Often what makes a woman ... a great woman is her ability to express her emotions properly, and use those same emotions to fuel her strength, courage, motivation, and nurturing tendencies. I do agree that being a woman/man is not measure by the bills you pay, you can pay all of your bills consistently, two weeks before they are due, you may have good credit but you can still be selfish, irresponsible in other aspects, not learn from any of your mistakes, unableto hold yourself accountable for you actions, unmotivated, with little ambition, and think that life is just a big game that you play at the expense of others.

i stopped reading this as soon as she said "emotions have very little to do with maturity"....that's the dumbest thing i've heard all week....so i didn't even read the rest after that sentences... 8-) (nessa)