What Do We Owe Aspirants?

"WileECoyote06" wrote:

I'd say treat people with dignity, and I'll use an example. Aspirant A approaches a sorority member to ask if she can meet with her to discuss that sorority. The sorority member gives her a rude look and tells her, "If you don't know what you need to know; it's too late." The aspirant walks away confused, while the sorority member confides in her LS, "I don't want someone in my sorority that would walk away that quickly." This case is tame, but I have heard it over and over and over again. People tend to forget how intimidated or scared they were when they wished to join an organization. She could have been pleasant with the young lady. That is exactly why the larger organizations are becoming a huge friend network instead of actively searching for and making yourself appealing to all impressive candidates.[/quote] Gotta agree with that. I have some sorors that like to be rude like that because they feel as though they want what we have. But im not rude like that at all. If u are interested in Zeta, feel free to come and talk to me esp since im membership intake coordinator but just dont go around telling everyone you want to be a Zeta. If u need some info on my org, ill let u know a little bit and perhaps give you an invitation to our interest meeting if i feel you are qualified